How to make me love myself? b'coz I hate myself ao much...?

Answer 1

Start a hobby, take a class, accomplish something and pat yourself on the back after finishing it.

Answer 2

Aw, don't say that. Because, when you hate yourself you open the door for others to hate you as well. You are the most important and beautiful human being that you know. Love yourself for being unique. You are a beautiful flower in this big garden of life. You are one of many butterflies that this world needs for pollination. Live and laugh and love yourself just as the rest of us are doing. Some days we all do stupid things or say stupid things that make us chastise ourselves. But how can you hate such a beautiful creation from The All Mighty Creator. Take up glass blowing or pottery or knit or crochet something to get the feel of what it is to create. Then feel and caress the beauty of that creation and imagine the sadness you would feel if that inanimate object could talk and say that it hated itself. You might as well love yourself because you can't make another you.

Answer 3

That's a hard one to explain, at least for me. But, I used to feel that way too. I don't really know how I changed other than I was able to acomplish a few things that were good for me like quiting hard drugs and being free of them for the last 8 years. I then got a real job and worked up from a dishwasher to a supervisor in facilities dept. that made me feel good. I still hate my looks and have been strugling to lose weight. There are a lot of things you can do to "Improve" yourself to make you feel good about yourself. I wish you the best and DON"T give up on yourself!!

Answer 4

I have the same problem. If you don't learn to love yourself, no one is going to do it for you.
Just remember, you have no reason to be so hard on yourself. You are just like anyone else in the world, trying to make it in life, and trying to figure out what life's purpose is. Don't get so caught up in little details. You are a human being; God made you, and you deserve to be loved and to love yourself. Nobody's perfect, and everyone dislikes something about themselves. But just believe in yourself and focus on the good things about you, whether it's your brain, your looks, your smile, the way you make people feel, or your sense of humor. Or even just being a good person.

Answer 5

well, lovie i think that you should think what about yourself do u hate?
ur hair, get it cut,
ur weight, lose it [unless ur anorexic, forget that then ]
ur skin, clear it up
or is it more? ask ur self about ur spirituality...wat religion r u?
if ur a christian, ask god,
if ur a religion with a god, ask that supreme being
if ur an athiest, well hmm...talk to a friend, call a crisis hotline

r u still upset after theses steps?
well, im VERY self-conscious too, but i find im my happiest self
when I am wearing my own style, playing with my own hair that
I picked out myself and appreciate the most, flirting with a hottie
[or being flirted with :) ].

Just remember, you can always call a friend and ask them, real
friends help u because they care and theyre always there.

i live by this: BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE, NOT WHAT OTHERS WANT TO SEE

i hope it helps u as it has me^^^^^ think about it



in life, we are questioned of our strength, and this is one of our tests of strength, pass it or fail it? its ur choice, remember that you're just as beautiful as everyone else [if ur a religion of a god then just remember god loves u]. If we pass, we live our life to the fullest, and we only come on this earth once...why not make it as beautiful as possible?

Good luck my friend!

Answer 6

Well first of all why do you hate yourself so much.

Answer 7

well what is wrong with you? is there anything in life you like? what do you want? do you crave anything? do you ever laugh? just would like to know how bad your situation really is would you email me so we can chat? my email is [e-mail]

Answer 8

you could start by changing your nickname to somthing a little nicer, pretty tough there,