suppose u know her very well, and know the following facts
- they had a bad relationship, as in - they had a nice time together and all, but at the end of it, it got a little messed up, cause he was not the most faithful of guys, well - she used to lie to him alot as well.
- they were in love, but called it off.
- she is still compleatly in love with him, and says that he is the one who makes her smile...
- he slept and moved in with his ex while he was still dating her
- he is now sort of back with his ex - girlfriend - and he told this 20 yr old girl, that he has been in love with her for 4 years
- the girl and the guy - 1 yr, but never had a physical relationship
well, - what would u say
if u know she was crushed and hurting
what would u say? how do u console her? please advice and say something
thanks
2007-02-20 18:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would tell her to keep her head up, that she deservs better then this loser and for her to have more respect for herself by finding someone that treats her right
2007-02-20 19:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Lin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy, my first impulse is to offer advice of how to fix things. With affairs of the heart, that seldom works.
IMHO, the best thing you can do for her is just be there and listen. Echo her thoughts. Try not to offer your opinion of him, for if you are negative and she goes back to him, she will resent you. The same goes on the flip side, sorta.
Search for "active listening skills" on the Web.
These techniques were originally designed for couples, but the principles apply to all relationships and conversations.
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2007-02-21 03:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her to look on the bright side.
2007-02-21 03:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told you so!
2007-02-21 03:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by RoninShonen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"What you doing tonight?"
2007-02-21 03:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋