She likes her schmooshy pilllow cold, and if i lay on it ,it gets warm and she gets pissed. My wife put me up to this.
2007-02-20 18:41:49 · 17 answers · asked by Deming F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if you fart on it.....
2007-02-20 18:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by bigbro3006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every marriage goes through this. If it's not a pillow it's a towel or something else. I do not like my husband using my pillow because then I have to use his and I hate his pillow. It's down, feathery and has a certain smell I can't stand. I also dislike it when he uses my bath towel as a hand towel after brushing his teeth or washing his hands. It's called a hand towel for a reason! He also put up shower caddies, but then his bar of soap, razor, etc. is sitting on the edge of the tub making a mess. I don't even try to correct it...he just has tub cleaning duty now. Basically you should just try to find a compromise. If she's comfortable and you are comfortable then it's going to be in the best interest for the two of you. Best of luck to you in your marriage. : )
2007-02-21 03:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by AriKnight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...I am thinking she would like to prove her point. Is there no other pillows in the house you could get all warm before she goes to bed?? I like my side of the bed cold when I get in it. My husband thought he was going to be nice and warm it up once. I was not rude but let him know it is the cold part that I like.
If she likes her pillow cold then leave it alone.
Is it rude if you like you beer cold and she sets it out in the sun to warm it up for you?
Is it rude if she knows you like your steak rare and cooks it well done everyday because that is how she likes hers?
Let's just be courtious hun...let you wife have her cold pillow at the end of the day. I am sure she does much more than that for you every day.
2007-02-21 03:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had this same issue with my ex-wife. I hated when she took my pillow because I wasn't there. I love getting into a nice cold crispy bed. You get ready to lay down for the night and get all comfy and you walk up to the bed boom my pillow is under her head and sometimes between her legs...if only I could get that lucky!!!
It comes down to basic respect and consideration. Leave your wife's pillow alone.
2007-02-21 02:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it rude get your own, d*mn it! It is not much to ask for. It is evident that you like the pillow so get one of your own and leave hers alone.
2007-02-21 09:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have my schmooshy pillow to and I don't like it when my fiance lays on it. It actually pisses my off too. Keep off of the pillow !!
2007-02-21 02:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hell no... Be a man! Statistics say that the man brings home more money than women. With that said...who really owns the pillow? Tell your wife to go buy another one. She probably has your credit card anyway. Good luck!
2007-02-21 02:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
If that's the case, then leave it alone.
Would you like someone creating an uncomfortable bed for you, by their own choice and/or lack of respect for your preferences?
I think not.
2007-02-21 07:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bearess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't blame her!. It's not rude, but it is inconsiderate. Leave her pillow alone.
2007-02-21 03:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Hawkster 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her pillow alone and she is likely to be happier in the bedroom in other ways also.
2007-02-21 02:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
(Hi wife) Anyhoo, why don't you use YOUR pillow. That way your wife can have that one little tiny thing that she likes. Thats all... just that one little thing she happens to like. come on now.... its not a lot to ask. ok bye! ;)
2007-02-21 02:51:45 · answer #11 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋