I'm a Christian, and I believe that homosexuality is wrong, but I find myself attracted to guys instead of girls! I just want to get married and have a family, but I'm not attracted to women! I just need someone to talk to me and/or give me advice.
2007-02-20 18:39:15 · 6 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Homosexuality is the lie. God calls it a sin, therefore, by default, it can be overcome. Just like any other sin, the solution is to focus more on God than yourself and pursue a life led by the Spirit.
Galatians 5
16 So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. 17For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want.
2007-02-21 04:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree with most of the things said by the others here and especially about calling up a gay help line. There are people on the other end who have been trained to answer your questions about sexuality and religion and can give you different options. There are also many parishes around who are pro-gay and they can help you out in reconciling your thoughts about being gay and Christian at the same time.
Contact your local gay youth centre as well because I'm sure they'd be able to point you in the right direction.
2007-02-20 20:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by zengie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with being a homosexual and denying that will only cause you problems and heartache. Ignoring the fact that you are attracted to men would be unfair to you and unfair to any female partner you have in the future. Although it may seem difficult, I suggest you accept who you are and embrace a new lifestyle. Religion can still be part of your life just in a different way.
2007-02-20 18:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Deena 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you can get lots of advice on yahoo answers..but I wouldn't put too much creedence in the answers...maybe you could call a gay help line or help line of some kind.. If you are gay and you get married and have kids...it's a common tragedy...you end up lying to everyone.
2007-02-20 20:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Live your life truthfully. If you don't you will resent it later. BTW, if homosexuality is wrong, how much more wrong is living a lie? After all, how can God ever know you if your whole life is based on a lie?
2007-02-20 18:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom in Faith 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to me ive gone through what you went through
i offer advice
and a friend
IM me to lupi_0525@yahoo.com
or bthazeleyes_91@hotmail.com
dont worry
its ok ill help you
2007-02-20 18:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋