i have a girl that has cheated on me and i have cheated on her too,talking about marrige ,can i marry her,wont she cheat on me again.as for me i will not cheat on her again
2007-02-20 18:37:50 · 13 answers · asked by xcapee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope!!. If u have reason to cheat on her the first time, theres always a second and so forth. Same goes to her.
2007-02-20 19:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Say what? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! There, nowadays not only mans cheat on their wife and gf. Well some ladies cheat on their husband and gf. I don understand why? Maybe the ladies nowadays are more educated, they think differently. As they think mans can cheat on them so they could also cheat on thier man. Let them know how it feel been cheated. Human do make silly mistake in their life, don't they? Some of them deserve a second chance and some don cos they still the same even thought they say they wont do it again.
Since both of you has been cheat on each another. I suggest it time for both you to sit down and think it through. Marriage involve two person. In Marriage: Trust, understand, Faithful,stood by and Honor the person that you are marry. If this five things didn't comes to both of you, it not time to think of marry.
I hope I had answer your question. Take Care & God bless You!
2007-02-21 03:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by Phoebe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, You know that you won't cheat on her any more and you trust yourself to that right? Then why not trust her? If she has shown you that this isn't going to happen again and you all have gone through it all and put it behind you then you need to trust again for this marriage to work. You love her? Do you trust her? Then I think that it would be okay if all questions were answered above with a yes. There shouldn't even be a question in your mind about marrying her. This is something that you have to make work and there will always be hard times but there will be lots of very nice parts and I hope that for you guys you would have it as nice as my husband and myself having a whole lot of fun! Good luck!
2007-02-21 02:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure you can marry her. Do I think you should? NO WAY!
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Once a rapist, always a rapist.
Once a molester, always a molester...
There's just some things that once someone does it, they're always gonna think about doing it again.
If you really loved each other, then there would have never been any cheating to begin with, from either of you.
2007-02-21 02:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! Are you crazy? You shouldn't even think of getting married to any girl period. If you have too, heaven forbid, protect your self with a Prenuptial agreement that states that if you have sex with someone else it is not grounds for divorce. You were born alone and will die alone. Only you can protect your butt!
2007-02-21 02:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are issues u need to discuss prior to marriage, find out what is in her heart, and how she feels about what se did. ut if u also cheated, than maybe u need to forgive her too if she has forgiven u. just discuss it, and try to agree how u will work out problems in the future without going outside the marriage.
2007-02-21 05:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to marry someone who has cheated on you ...besides why are you asking online only you can decide that for yourself
2007-02-21 02:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first rule when dealing with devil : DON'T
she cheated on you man , how can you marry her ? you might have forgiven her but sure you didn't forget , take someone who is beautiful inside like she is outside .
2007-02-21 03:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your answer by admission of your own actions. It is like you are saying men are more trustworthy than women. You know the girl not us. The bottom line do you think she is trustworthy?
2007-02-21 02:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead & marry her.
You both deserve each other.
2007-02-21 02:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋