I'm a 21 year old male who has no future.
I live with my parents. I'm currently unemployed. I don't have a car. I don't goto school. I don't have any real friends. I've never had a girlfriend. I don't do anything. I sleep all day and surf the internet or play games all night.
I have no desire or passion in my life. I am a useless human being. I don't know what to do with my life. I am sick of this life and need a major change. I need a purpose. I need life direction. I need help.
2007-02-20 18:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It sounds like you are suffering from depression. Go talk with your doctor and tell him/her how you feel. Good luck.
2007-02-20 18:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok dude; first thing tomorrow take the initiative to find a part time job (ask a family member/friend for a ride or take the bus if you have to.) Since you love surfing the internet so much go apply for financial aid www.fafsa.ed.gov than apply for a community college this fall. You don’t need a gf right now just to sort our your life. Take the initiative, be a man because there is a lot this life has to offer you just need to live it.
Your passion in life should be to make something for yourself and instead of feeling sorry for yourself you just need to try.
P.S. College isn't as hard as you think it is.
2007-02-21 02:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Reload 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You sound clinically depressed & probably have been for many, many years. Make an appt with a psychiatrist asap.
I am bi-polar & can remember being depressed as young as 5 but not to the degree you are. I didn't begin to see a light at the end of the tunnel until I sought help & recd the proper medication.
2007-02-21 04:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents to loan you some cash so you can buy a car. Once you get the car, find a job. Once you find a job, enroll in college classes. You can go part-time and still get financial aid and loans. If you do these things, you will make friends and find a girlfriend easily because you will be out in the world with people, and you'll feel good about yourself. You aren't useless. You're just in a rut. Climb out of it and push yourself out of your comfort zone, and you'll be fine. You're young, and we all go through times where we don't know what to do and where to start. Just get yourself going. Good luck.
2007-02-21 02:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your life, heart, and mind over to Jesus Christ. I know this may not make sense to you at first, but trust me, it is worth it to discover truth and why you were borne in the first place. I have included a link on the bottom of this page to get you started on finding a good church. Please visit one of them (the one nearest to you, perhaps). I truly hope you discover truth and the meaning of life like I have in Jesus Christ.
2007-02-21 02:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by moxiewoman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, you seemed to have been suffering from depression.without any delay, consult a therapist. get rid of those inferiority complexes. and develop self confidence. you are not inferior to others. all the best. try to help others, you will get happiness.
2007-02-21 02:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by nightingale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋