Suicide Thoughts?

Question

Give me one good reason i shouldnt commit suicide?
Theres not one good thing in my life.
The only person i love is my grandma
Why is MY life worth living.

The BIG part of me even thinking about suicide is my dad!! he is the worste!!!! all he does is drink eat and sleep. Whenever he talks to me its all yelling/hitting for NO reason at all.

oh to you guys, god "doesnt" love me, im bi-sexuel. theres another reason i should.

Answer 1

You asked for one but I will give you ten....

1.) You love your grandma and dont want to hurt her
2.) As hopeless as it seems....life can get better if you seek treatment
3.) I don't know you and I love you enough to take the time to reach out and show God's love
4.) It is a permanent solution to a temporary problem
5.) God gave you life...do you really want to hurt yourself and others by taking it away?....people love and care for you even if it doesn't feel like it
6.) Something inside of you cares enought to reach out...take one more step and see a counselor
7.) Think of all the things you would miss like flowers, rain, sunshine, rainbows, snow....the little things in life
8.) God loves you
9.) If you die...you can't take it back
10.) Doctors would work to save you if you attempted suicide because there is a purpose in life....dont put an end to a good thing

You dad is not worth taking your own life...and God love everyone...straight, gay, bi, black, white, or green....there is a church in my town that has a gay preacher....God associated with prostitutes and tax collecters....he loves everyone "as you do unto the least of these so you do unto me". Even if you don't believe that God loves you...your grandma and other people do. I know that it is hard to deal with the pain of abusive relationships...I have some but I am not going to minimize your pain...I am here if you need a friend!

Answer 2

you love your grandma
that is a positive point

first of all death is a bit limited
the best you can hope for is to be compost in Gods garden or become dust locked in a box
this is very boring and terminal
no chance of improvement in any direction.

with life there are infinite possibilities .
even the worst ones are way better than death

and if you are totally down ,at the bottom ,in despair ,no where to go ,this is fantastic
look upon this as a great opertunity ,

never have you been in a better position for improvement the only direction is up
,you can only get better from now on ,
you cannot get worse ,
because that is where you are


find somebody to play with ,go and look for fun
not sadness

go to the park look at the lovers ,Happiness is contagious

get a dog ,to look after ,this will give you some
responsibility
in a while you wont even remember how down you were

or volunteer to help people who are more screwed up than you are ,this will give you apreciation of what you got
Viva

Answer 3

Because you have alot more to live for. You don't know what lies ahead. And why give up finding out? Yeah things get bad in life, but thats how it is. You need the bad to know what good is. There will be times where ou feel like suicides the only way out, but if you just take it easy and get through things, you'll be fine. It's your decision because it is your life, I just hope you realize what you could be giving up.

* ALL OF YOU PEOPLE TRYING TO FORCE RELIGIOUS IDEAS INTO THIS KIDS HEAD, STOP. IT'S SOMETHING YOU SHOULDN'T BE DOING. NOT ALL PEOPLE BELIEVE IN GOD, AND YOU SHOULD RESPECT IT.

*You being bi sexual shouldn't be a reason. I personally don't believe in god, so it doens't make sense to me. You should be fine with your sexual orientation. You don't need anyones approval.

And I'm sorry about your dad, that could be tough. My dad was like that to, until my family made him get help. You just have to put up with it. Don't give in to anyone or anything. Be stronger than that.

Answer 4

Your grandma loves you back, right? You would really HURT HER if you were to kill yourself. You've got to live your life the way you want it to be NOT the way it is. We may never know why your life is really worth living if you kill yourself. You just need some help and a friend. Put yourself out there and make friends. What do you like to do? What makes you happy? Whatever it is, DO IT!!! You've already done a super good thing by letting us know you're thinking this way. Talk to you
r grandma! Don't hurt her - you love her and guess what? Deep down you love yourself too. Now show it! Write me any time you need to if you want. Just call grandma right now if it's not too late, otherwise do it in the morning!

P.S. if your Dad is physically harming you - call the POLICE!!!!! Or the child abuse hotline in your area!! That is NOT cool AT ALL! And don't let him get away with it - he needs help as much as if not tons more than you do anyway!!!!!!

So what if you're bisexual - almost every sexually active person out there is!

Answer 5

I felt this way once. If your Dad is beating you, go to the police and get out of the house. You are on the computer asking for the reasons why not to kill your self and that tells me that you want help. I wish that I could give you all of the right answers. I wish I was your parent so I could hold you and make you feel better. There are people that care here, just talk to us, maybe we can help alittle. You will hurt your Grandmother if you do this. Losing you will hurt her more than you will ever now.

Answer 6

The creator of the universe has created us just to pray & obey him and we don't have the right to end our lives. Never consider this worldly life everything, this world is just a testing ground and the good souls will be rewarded beyond their imaginations in the life after death. So don't get depressed if you have a lot of problems or pains in this life, just spend the life as per God's will, what ever comes in your way. just search for the right path leading to a glorious destination. We are gifted brain to find that right path.

At lease u have yr grandma to love, there are millions of people in this world who have nothing good in their lives but still they struggle to live, to protect our lives is our basic instinct. Just keep on learning good things and make yourself into a sensible loving & caring person. See arround in the world and feel the pains of poor peoples suffering beyong your imagination.

So start searching from right now, I believe you will find it soon if you are really sincere to find it, as I too have found.
Yours Lovingly.
Lovangel2007

Answer 7

God loves everyone. He doesn't think like we do. If Jesus was dieing on the cross and prayed to the father to to forgive the thief next to him plus all who tortured him why wouldn't he love you. You have to love you, don't worry about if God does or not. Thats a given! I fight depression every day of my life. I recently found out that I'm bi-polar. I was so depressed (even worse) when I found out. It was like having DEFECTIVE on my forehead. On top of people calling me psyco 1/2 my life now there's proof. But the point is the way we look at things. Glass 1/2 full or empty. Find a good psyh doctor and then a good counselor. I'm on public aide and thought I'd never find a good one but I have. Hang in there. Remember, Satan knows your thoughts and if your life was easy, then he would have you. Satan only wants the ones that he thinks he is losing to God. Ask God for direction, then to help you hear his voice, then thank him for taking care of it. Even tho you don't feel he's heard or has done anything, thats where faith comes in -- it takes practice. Even Peter started out of the boat but took his eyes off Jesus for a splint second and yet Jesus saved him right then. Can email me anytime if I can help I will. Ill pray for you.

Answer 8

well confused I wish I had the right answer for you but I know you will just shoot me down but I will throw this out just incase you decide to listen. I know exactly how you feel I constantly think about "offing" myself but I dont do it for 2 reasons 1. I am way to lazy to devise a plan and 2. I would miss all of my tv shows. Seriously my friend what you can do is go to your local hospital and ask to talk to someone it sounds like you need to get a lot of stuff off your chest. Hell if you are looking for someone to talk to you can talk to me if there is a way to send a pm here go for it. I am a good lstener and like to think I dont judge ppl.

Answer 9

Because Jesus died on the cross to save your life and the reason He did that is because He says you are worth it and so do I.He accepts you and forgives you for any sin in your life and gives you a clean slate.Please ask Him to come into your life right now and recieve His forgiveness and love.The void you are filling in your heart is one that only He can fill.Hold fast He will save your day,He will rescue you from this pain and torment you are feeling.Know that you are loved and I pray that you will see that suicide is NOT the answer. This is really hard for me to say and not a whole lot of people know this but I do care and I will share w/ you,I was raped as a child physically,emotionally abused from age 4 til 8 by my stepdad., and I tried to commit suicide once I was older and thought I would and the world would be better off w/out me and that no one loved or cared for me .I suffered for years of depression and thinking wrongful thoughts of sexual sin until i came to know the reason for this was because of the abuse.Jesus delivered me from the sin and He redeemed me,He took away the pain and torment .All I did was exactly what I said,Asked Him to come into my life and I believed in Him that He died on that cross for me and rose from the grave and saved my life, He loves me and I truly know this and I know he loves you too. I care Dan's wife

Answer 10

This is about to get really personal. I've had thoughts about suicide and I've come really close to actually killing myself. For awhile I had a weird addiction with taking pills whenever I felt upset or unappriciated. From my personal experience, I know what you mean when you say that there's not one good thing in your life.

I'm not sure if I can give you any good advice. I'm just getting over that stage myself. Whenever I'll get really upset, I'll just sleep it off. It does wonders for your body and your mood. Sometimes you just need to get away and be alone but sometimes you need someone to talk to (in your case your grandma). It's really nice if you know someone that you can always talk to but keep the thoughts that you share a secret.

Everyone's methods for getting over suicide are different. I can give any exact solid advice.

*HUG*

If you EVER need anyone to talk to, talk to me. :] Much blessings to you.

Honey. God loves you. It doesn't matter if you're bi-sexual or not. I have plenty of friends who admit that they're different and I'm not bothered by it. About your dad, if he EVER hurts you and you feel uncomfortable or scared around him, report him. Seriously.