Please HELP ME ASAP, and please no silly or joke responses. What is the term of a friend who would always want to get help and values your friendship but when asked for help they would create excuses or say things like "who cares, you're stupid", even though it's the same type of problems that they ask me. To the point not to ask about health issues. There MUST be a term. SOMEONE, please! Helpe me with this one ASAP. Yes....NOW :(
2007-02-20 17:42:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
GUYS IM SERIOUS, what is the real term used for this type of friend. I am not asking for advice to keep them or not.
Let's say I like having this friend, he is a great friend, but all he does is talk about his problems and when I start with mine, it "oh I have to go" . I like the guy. I don't care for the lack of reciprocation. I just need a RIGHT term for such a phenomenon, psycholically? English wise? I know there's one but cannot seem to find it!!! Please, an informed answer would be great and give you a full rating. Thanks
2007-02-20 18:20:21 · update #1
A "fair weather friend"....someone who is around when things r good and going his way, but turn and run when someone else has a problem and needs his help. I`ve had a so called friend like that once, but I never valued her friendship, `cause I knew she was a false friend.
2007-02-20 18:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got a few of that types of friend too. what i do is that i try to not care anymore and when i need help or support i rely on my family and people who really care for me.
2007-02-21 01:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Vaness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all thats not a friend. but the term we use in our little corner of the world is ............ a user..........or.........a waste of time.
as in the friend you are talking about is a user. someone who takes and takes and yet gives nothing in return. he is a waste of time.
sounds like you need to cut this person loose and find a real friend. sorry.
2007-02-21 01:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell makes this person a Friend? You need to evaluate you friendships. This person sounds like a jerk...
2007-02-21 01:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever is not as "part, whole, equivalence, uniqueness, limit, link, influence, sensation, origin, derivative, rule, condition, intent, and fulfillment" is not a friend!!!!!
2007-02-21 01:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by The Knowledge Server 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self centered
2007-02-21 02:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has that big L in his forehead for "LOSER".
2007-02-21 01:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by florecitarivera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hypocrite" ?
2007-02-21 01:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by astella_interrupted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋