who would do anything to bring you down. Those people are called family. jaleous of your success. how to deal with them?
2007-02-20 17:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just shine. You can't control others, neither are you responsible for their actions. Sit back and SHINE. Stay positive.
2007-02-20 17:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by "El Padrino" 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, i'm having the same problem with my family, they all have their opinions about me and what i should be doing, how i should behave, how i should spend my spare time, where i should work, how my husband should behave and my 2 sons,
I'm a 38 year old woman, and my family think i cant do a thing right I just do my best to ignore what they say, I know I'm doing alright, they just seem to live their lives with blinkers on.
I'm on the verge of letting go with my lot and telling them " to think whatever they want i'm not interested in their opinion so to keep it just that" THEIR OPINION
2007-02-21 02:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by talula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such a good question!
It's unhealthy to be around negative people. It brings you down and then you pass it on and on.
I like to be around upbeat, positive people that are happy for my success. Those people are true friends.
I personally avoid negativity. If someone is gossiping or whining or complaining it really makes me want to leave.
2007-02-21 01:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to stay optomistic. You don't have to be around them much do you? Maybe on a get together, bring over a friend or two of yours who is just as positive as you are-the optomism will give you strength. Take care.
2007-02-21 01:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away from negative people they will drain you of your energy these people obviously dont care about you otherwise they would be happy for you and support you in whatever you do. thats unconditionaly love.
2007-02-21 01:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I have to find a quiet corner and have a good cry, then I hate myself for being so weak. Hope you have more backbone (then me) and stand up for yourself! Good Luck!
2007-02-21 01:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by kmv 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move away ignore them.
2007-02-21 02:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl143_dk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a product of your environment and you can and do control your environment.
2007-02-21 01:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by ahmad H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hug a tree (-;
2007-02-21 01:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Tricia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple: LEAVE.
2007-02-21 01:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋