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And if you don't know what I'm talking about, then why would you answer my damn question anyway?

2007-02-20 17:15:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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Well, I'm bisexual, not a lesbian, but I prefer butches who sort of fit the 'butch mold'. I just don't like women who, with a pair of earrings and a swipe of lip gloss, could pass for a sweet femme . . . I want them umistakenly butch, whether they define it as 'soft' or 'hardcore'. But at the same time, I don't need someone who's so wrapped up in the butch role that their own personality can't shine through, too. I guess I prefer more hardness in looks, and I can take more softness in personality and behavior.

Mostly, though, I find myself drooling over hardcore butches with tough, confident exteriors and gooey melty centers of softness.

2007-02-20 18:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Aww slow down there killer! :( If I understand correctly what the question is asking-do I prefer a butch who looks/acts more manly or a butch who doesn't act as manly or look as manly-has more of a soft side to her.

So, if I am correct (please don't hurt me for answering) then I prefer the softer butches. They look tomboyish but at the same time have the feminine glow still in their appearance. Yeah, I just decided this probably only makes sense to me.

Edit----

sorry I guess my sense of humor doesn't translate very well and my understanding might have been jumbled. I apologize if any of what I said offended anybody.

2007-02-21 01:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

What I find attractive is an intelligent woman. Stone butch, soft butch, or femme...it doesnt matter if she can carry on an intelligent conversation. A gorgeous woman who is dumb as dirt would not hold my attention after she opened her mouth.

2007-02-21 09:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Friskie 2 · 0 0

You really have to take it person by person, I have friends of both types. I am a soft one....most of the time. My wife isn't butch and that is okay too.

2007-02-21 16:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by dragonsarefree2 4 · 0 0

I'm mostly attracted to femmes and soft butches.

2007-02-22 08:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0 0

I am not gay..BUT i am attracted to some hard-core butches...i don't know why other than they look like a man more and that is attractive to me.

2007-02-21 01:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0 0

hey nothing better than an hardcore butch

2007-02-21 02:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by staycee 1 · 0 0

Neither i like a studs.... butches are different then that.

2007-02-21 01:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm attracted to people based more on their personality than any other aspect. I could potentially have a relationship with either.

2007-02-21 12:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0 0

i dont really prefer butches....i like the soft fem. type!!!!

2007-02-21 01:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Whitney D 1 · 0 0

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