I want to know whether all married ladies get sexual satisfaction and arousal from their partners? If no, how they overcome their frustration? How to overcome the problems of ejaculation of partenrs before proper sex?
2007-02-20 17:09:36 · 14 answers · asked by Diksha S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To answer the first question, sometimes, but the rule in our house is if I'm not happy, he's not happy either...lol
I think that answered the second question too....
And I'm not quite sure about the third question, but I take from it...how to postpone ejaculation till after your partner is pleased? (maybe?) There are lots of tricks to that one.....
2007-02-20 17:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow heres some insight into this froma Married man's perspective. The answer is >>>>> NO<<<<<<. That's the way it is. Women are wired totally different then men are. we kind of have it easy. we just need a place to put it really. Learning to satisfy a women is something that you LEARN as a man. If the woman is not satisfied then it is partly her responsibility. By this I mean She KNOWS what it takes to get her to the happy place. Men aren't offended when you give us pointers. Well at least I'm not. I want it to be GREAT for my partner not just for me. learning each others likes and dislikes comes with time. There are women out there who have no trouble at all getting off. some take hours to get there. its a thing that comes with time. married couples have a better succuss rate because we have a lot of education about each other. Thats all. I bet if someone did a survey and asked do you achieve orgasm more now that you have been married for a while or the same as you did when you were dating or just doing your thing the numbers would be really skewed towards the married side.
Oh and penetration is not the only way to get her there. Trust me. Also Its an ego thing for most guy's we want to satisfy you. It makes us feel like the BIG man on campus :)
2007-02-20 17:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rodney R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not always... and it is not a logical or permanent thing either ways (i.e. they get it or not). The same cuople may achieve it sometimes and fail to achieve some other times.
It has to do a lot with the way & situations they participate in the act. The 'performance' is effected by a lot of factors including physical & mental state; environment; timings; frequency; occassion; experience; level of excitement or fear (of performance as well being caught); safety concerns; locations; ambience; physiology and so on so forth... The occassional failure should not be a cause of worry. If it is repititive, there is a need for counselling or treatment.
Premature ejaculation is also more of a psychological problem and can be handled by the female partner in a matured manner. Give a lot of time to 'fore-play' and delay the final act. In case of non-performance, do not act in an emotional manner; try to achieve it by way of 'masterbation' or caressing... etc. etc.
2007-02-20 18:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn about forepaly and afterplay. That would definitely help with the satisfaction. Try to get the finest version of 'Kamasutra'. Most of the times dissatisfaction in sex is due to improper approach with respect to each others capabilities.
The probelm could be that he is below average or you are above average. I believe Foreplay can solve your problem. Both of you can consult a doctor regarding the issue. A few drugs and sprays are also available that can help. Just read the instructions carefully...
:-)
2007-02-21 07:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not all women get fullest satisfaction on sex with their partners. This is one of the major reason of divorce in current situation.
To overcome their frustration there are many different ways Indian are tackling. Most of the Indian joined Sant-Shba, yoga and doing traditional pray. Hindu going to Mandir, Muslims going to Masjid, Christian going to Church and Sikh going to gurudwara.
But most of the people are consulting to doctors and going for traditional way simultaneously. It is up to you and your partner how you will solve your problem. I know you are facing this problem from last 15 years. And I am very confident that you will solve this problem by asking your husband with love and feel him to consider and care for you.
Best of Luck
2007-02-20 19:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, yes if those women are happy in their life.. that question can have no definate answer and the thing you are asking is quite different for every women... that totaly depends but if you are having problems in your married life i think its not because of that... some other thing is bothering her.. that may be iinsecurity of ur love.. try to simply talk to her freely thats the only solution...
2007-02-20 17:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by chanchal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premature Ejaculation has been the perennial problem with men. It has to be diagnosed and treated properly. Otherwise, you have to learn artificial means of stimulation.
2007-02-20 17:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex education is necessary: there are books to overcome sex problems: so you can refer that.In this platform you will get various and awkward answers suggestions: so you have to bear it:
2007-02-20 18:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 10:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? As long as a man gets his. I say leave the stripper at the strip club if you catch my drift.
2007-02-20 18:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋