Is it love or do i just want sex?
me and my bf have known each other for 3years and we'v been dating off and on. we just started having sex a few months ago.
before i could go on days at a time without him and even a week or more because of him work. then we broke up and now we'r back together but this time....i miss him all the time, i wanna hear his voice , smell his cologne, and be with him .
why has things changed?
2007-02-20 17:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You just want sex.
sorry!
2007-02-20 17:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a) You're more emotionally attacthed to him because you've had a lot of time to get to know who he really is (especially after all the breakups).
b) Add the above statement plus the fact that you already had sex with him recently just makes you want him near you even more.
So in short...it's a mixture of both. You love him because you've spent so much timw with him and his character but at the same time you just want to have sex with him because you remember all the good times (including recently) you've had with him.
It's all psychological in the end.
2007-02-21 01:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by miranda_aterra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be lust. You miss him more than you ever did-emotional ties come with sex, even more so than without sex. Take care.
2007-02-21 01:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things change because you brought sex into the relationship,
so know you want him, but know it sound like it all about sex.
2007-02-21 01:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to analise your feelings?
If it makes you happy, go with it.
Who knows where love begins and lust ends anyway.
2007-02-21 01:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by colin s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust last for 3 years and love last longer but know it was not a true 3 years so it,s still lust.
2007-02-21 01:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just sex
2007-02-21 01:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by dan m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋