Mind you he (husband)claims to be better than it had been for sometime.
2007-02-20 16:44:10 · 39 answers · asked by qsbookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. Fantasy is normal! There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. During sex and masturbation people fantasize. Fantasy does not mean reality. Remember the brain is the biggest sex organ in the body.
2007-02-20 16:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-09-29 10:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not completely into your husband, that means your probably in a rut. You need something to spice up your relationship. Please don't retreat into a fantasy land, make your own!!! Convince your husband to work out, extra tone always helps. Stur things up a bit with different music, scents, new scenery, anything out of the ordinary. Convince him to become a little more spontaneous. Imagining another man while wrong is a fairly common thing born from boredom, but its easily corrected.
2007-02-20 16:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by superkbiggs 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I think that it is wrong to do that when you are loving your husband. You should be fantasizing about him instead of some scum bag off the street.
2007-02-20 16:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
As long as you KNOW it is just a fantasy. Trust is the first building block of a good relationship. You don't have to tell him everything! No it is not wrong if you do it right!
2007-02-20 16:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by cprucka 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No.
You WITH your husband, not another man.
As long as you know the difference, and don't intend to change that, no biggie.
2007-02-20 23:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, Fantasies are just that; fantasies. If you make them a reality it changes, othersize if if it's fun and makes you horny you are both in a win win situation. You may stay married for longer too!
2007-02-20 22:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would your husband think if he knew? Some men would find it a turn on and some would be totally ticked.
But honestly I don't think it is healthy for the relationship.
2007-02-20 16:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by Angel D 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like hubby knows about this ,so if he's ok with it then there is no real problem.A fantasy is a fantasy
I personally don't see anything wrong with it.
I am sure he fantisizes about other women while making love to you!
2007-02-20 16:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by selma b 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let me tell you something men can tell when your mind is on someone else i don't know how they just can. If you have to fantasize about someone else your husband needs to do something alittle different.
2007-02-20 16:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by leslie b 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋