dont take this the wrong way.. i have no problem at all with lesbian... homosexuals, or anything
they are normal people just like everyone else.
but i was just wondering..... you know how some girls, that go out with other women, who dress and act like men. they say they would never go out with a man.... but the women is basically acting like one. why is it more appealing for a actual women acting like a man.... rather than just a man... why not just date a man?
i understand that maybe the women has a better personally then anyone else, so that is the reason for dating them.... but some date women who dress and act like men, when they say they would NEVER date a male, only women......
sorry i kinda suck at explaining... but hopefully you all know what i mean
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2007-02-20 16:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by =] 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
thanks steadybeau.... just what i was looking for =]]
that does make alot of sine... i never thought about that
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i'll pick you for the best... once it lets me lol.... unless i get a better answer :D
2007-02-20 16:51:07 · update #1
Because all women have both feminine and masculine qualities about them, and some lesbians prefer a lover who is in touch with them. Some lesbians like their women a little more on the masculine side, but they just DON'T want to be with a man, nor do they desire sex with a male. Some lesbians love the rugged, handsome look, but in a relationship, she wants to feel deeply loved and understood and held the way that only a WOMAN can. Butch lesbians can deliver that amazing balance. No hairy chest or penis is desired, no male personality... Just the butch look on the outside. And trust me - the intensity of sex between women is the BEST! Guys just cannot give women what these women need. To understand that feeling, you'd have to experience it. There is so much more to great sex beyond intercourse for women - and lesbians deliver. (Same reason applies for using a strap-on). I am sure men have something to offer, but lesbians need the kind of closeness and connection that a woman brings. A butch lesbian has all of the sweetness and romance combined with strength and raw animal sexuality.
2007-02-20 16:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Im Married You A Boyish Girl (stud) I Reason I Like Going Out With A Woman Because You Get The Best Of Both Worlds....I Jus Have More Of A Connection With Boyish Girls Then Girly Girls. But Sometimes You Have To Think About Why Do They Dress That Way Some Are Jus Tomboys From Jump Street. All In All I Have More In Common And I Have That Connection With Her. But It Go Many Different Ways For Different People.
2007-02-21 01:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a lesbian but my sister is the more man role one. I have asked this before as she only dates the feminine girls and her girlfriends always say it is the personality, they often like the man look but would rather be with a woman.
2007-02-21 00:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Destiny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i kinda get what you sayin, i mean i grew up with guys all my life so i was alwayz consider a lil boy or brother. and i just went along with and did guy things dating women is jus more comfterable to me i feel really loved cared for and i know i can trust them because growing up around guys i guess i just see them as dogs
2007-02-21 13:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by BOOTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females who dress like males are called "butches", this may be hard for you to understand, but some lesbians has a phobia of the penis, im not kidding, my best friend is a lesbian, and everytime she is finished talking to a guy she completely freaks out! (she is almost 20 btw)
2007-02-21 00:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ammie 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I know what you mean. It's the fact the manly girl wants to be in control. I dont know exactly how to explain this but that the girl wants to feel as the one who wears the pants in the relationship and she wants to be tough and mean like a guy would be. I'm sorry if you dont know what i mean but im trying. I dont think they date men because they're not interested in them but instead being like them. I even know a girl who dresses like a guy and likes guys but doesnt consider herself gay but thats just the way she wants to be. I'm sorry if this doesnt answer your question! =)
2007-02-21 00:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Any chick that can wear a fade high and tight better than me.. is kick *** in my book.
2007-02-21 00:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by teamkyle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im being serious when I say this...Watch.The.L.Word! Best show ever. And x'plains alot!
2007-02-21 00:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Me..................... 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i get what you are saying but i dont have an answer to explain it
2007-02-21 00:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by kimgurl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know, huh?
2007-02-21 00:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋