I went onto my wifes computer today to download some music... for a price of course... and well i opened up limewire and found she had 400GIG... yes 400 GIG of porn, but it wasn't just normal, it was of Midgets... animals and S & M... it was very.. not what i had ever done with her, now im wondering how i should approach this with her, because i love her and i want to make her happy, should i ask her about it?
2007-02-20 16:19:32 · 8 answers · asked by Drew P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One can never go wrong with healthy communication.
But don't assume that because this peaked her curiorisity for some reason, that she want's to try it. That would be a rude and crass mistake to make.
Instead, be sure to talk to her about her needs and desires in a empathatic and sensitive fashion. Letting her know that you care, and are curious about her sexuall fullfillment with you.
Good luck.
PS- do anything but be angry with her!
2007-02-20 23:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably too big for her so she is interested in midgets. I would just buy a dog. But I'm probably not normal either. What's her cell number?
2014-09-21 15:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by handsomesouthernpilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazing, if it were you having this on the computer and not your wife people would be telling her to dump you really fast. But since it's her viewing the stuff I'd surprize her with some S & M similar to what she is viewing. I'd stay away from the animals and midgets.
2007-02-20 22:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that she might have fantasies she hasn't talked to you about.
No big deal, your sex life might just be getting a little bit more exciting in the near future.
Don't ignore this though. You have to keep them happy and satisfied.
2007-02-20 21:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bill I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, then you must understand she has sexual needs that you may not be able to satisfy. Perhaps if she were able to include you in the viewing of this material, it may bring you both closer, and enhance your sexual experience together? I say ask her, she may just be waiting to open up.
2007-02-20 16:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jassypurr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
400 gigs ? Holy Crap... Thats an awful lot...but just because she has it doesn't mean she is going to be running out to the local circus.
TALK TO HER
2007-02-20 18:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by WOLFMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
400GIG? sounds like she has an addiction and a very sick one at that.
2007-02-21 02:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ask her then it's up to you what to do about it
2007-02-23 13:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋