My girlfriend and her best friend walk around the apartment/hotel/house naked and don't see it as anything odd. My girlfriend also cuddles with her best friend on our couch and tickles. I also discovered a photo of them kissing on the lips at a nightclub, which took place during New Year's Eve. (I was there, but on a different floor). My girlfriend says she once thought she was in love with her best friend, but no longer is. Her best friend is now married, but I think my girlfriend might have feelings for her. Should I be concerned with their behavior?
2007-02-20 16:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by ThatGurl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i would be concerned
2007-02-20 16:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by kimgurl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is disrespecting you to the utmost degree. Once a relationship is established, these kinds of things don't go on any longer. At best, she doesn't realize how much she is hurting you by cavorting with another and you need to tell her very firmly. Tell her that this behavior is unacceptable to you (after all, she's pretty much throwing it in your face) and leave if it continues. You deserve to be treated far better than that. Does your girlfriend's best friend's husband or wife know that the two of them are running around naked and cuddling on the couch?
Good luck to you.
2007-02-20 16:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what it rather boils all the way down to is, do you quite have faith her? in case you do, all this different stuff might only be on your head. i think of that is thoroughly alright to be friends with the different intercourse, and meaning giggling and having a solid dating with them and their family individuals. i additionally do no longer think of that is strange for a spouse to be out on the flicks or although with out her husband and/or little ones on a saturday night. that is totally perplexing to tell you to easily permit it flow while i do no longer understand your gf yet while your gut thoughts are rather no longer off, do no longer hassle approximately it lots. so what in case you haven't any longer have been given woman friends? that does no longer mean she don't have male friends. and how lots vibe do you get from the guy? if that is rather no longer undesirable, maybe you quite are only being paranoid. no longer everybody's friends and family individuals are going to be like yours, so which you won't be able to look at her like there is a few thing incorrect together with her for being close with acquaintances or no longer being blood appropriate to her god toddlers. if it bothers you nevertheless, only check together with her and tell her the type you experience. i would not say to piss her off and blow it out of share, yet only get it out and see the way it is going from there.
2016-11-24 21:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by crowner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, unless you are in love with one of them; no. It's none of your beeswax. If they are your friends, who they love won't matter. What if this was one of your friends male friends who was still in love with her? It's for THEM to handle. Friends falling for taken or married friends happens all the time. If you but in you will cause drama. Just be there for them. Most likely nothing will even happen because no offence but bisexuality has become the latest trend for straight girls. It's almost as essential for attracting men as a pair of pants that makes your butt look great.
2007-02-20 16:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm frankly i would be , only becuase myself and my best friend are very much the same and tend to sugar coat what really goes on, they sound like there closer than close.
2007-02-20 19:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by lil_meex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, at least your girlfriend is honost about her past feelings, I wouldn't be to concerned though, if the friend is married I do not think they would do anything.
Your girl friend and her best friend seem to have a specail bond, don't come between that, you will loose
2007-02-20 16:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ammie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, she does sound close to her.. maybe have a talk with her about her true feelings. let her know that her behavior does seem to cross the friendship lines and that you feel concerned about where you stand.
2007-02-20 17:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not have to be concerned, exactly, but you may want to just come out and ask her...the last thing either of you need is to let something fester and turn into something unhealthy. While it is very common for close friends, expecially females, to share a strong bond and even infatuatuion, it is something that can go out of bound quickly if not kept in check. Good Luck!
2007-02-20 16:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by cvjade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they cuddle naked, uh yea. I would be concerned about it. Ask her first then go from there.
2007-02-20 16:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by jenha1005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would. It's not a typical relationship that one would have with her best friend.
2007-02-20 16:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by nicoleband0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be.... but maybe she is just trying to have fun... but it seems deffiantly more than just a normal friendship
get involvd to figer out what is going on
good luck you you
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2007-02-20 16:52:28 · answer #11 · answered by =] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋