I love my wife but I don't think I'd do it again. I feel like I lost way to much freedom.
2007-02-20 16:10:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't do it again (at least not with the same women). I've been married 11 years + dating years of 7 for 18 total years. At 39 now I do feel I missed out on allot. I have kids I adore so I'm not going anywhere. What I miss most of all is the feeling when you 1st meet - lust, effect ion, the newness of any relationship. It's said to think that wont ever happen again unless drastic changes occur like moving out and living out of a Dumpster...
I think sometimes we just need to get out more without the wives. It doesn't mean we have to cheat or be animals. We just need a change once in awhile.
2007-02-20 16:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Champ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Freedom to do what exactly? I think you crave freedom maybe because you've had enough of being married.....It's normal I guess to wonder what our life would be like if we never got married but if you love the one you're with & they're good for you & to you I really don't see why you'd say you wouldn't marry them again...what can you do single that you can't do married.....accept shag around.......maybe you're thinking the other side is greener....it just looks that way sometimes.....I wouldn't marry my first husband again...but I'd certainly marry the guy I'm married to now again......
2007-02-21 00:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would love to be married again but not to my previous wife, but to the right one (i know the right one is out there somewhere) if you really feel you lost to much freedom,then i agree you shouldn't. for me i really would like to share my life with someone,the rest with the right one.
2007-02-21 00:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by skip3800 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest with you, from between one and 12 years into our marriage I would have said NO, I would not do it again. However, as I get older I am glad that I stuck it out. She is my best friend now. I know it's hard to imagine if you are sort of new to marriage, but if you can stick it out you'll probably find that you can't live without her.
2007-02-21 00:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes, i would do it all over again, unless i got to not do it but still be in the position that i am in
forget that last statement i just made
yes, i would do it all again, even though me and my ex are not together, it put me in a position that i am in right now, i learned some lessons, and i gained some experience, so yea, i would do it all again the same way, i like where i am and who i am
2007-02-21 00:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most certainly, I can not imagine living without my wife. Our love grows deeper each year for 40 years now. i don't feel as if i have missed out on anything.
2007-02-21 00:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by old man 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it again.....and I am a woman...........
Don't get me wrong, it's not that I don't love my husband
(the father of my children),
But....I think I got married too young....if I would of known then, what I know now, I would have waited to get a little bit older and wiser...
I would marry him all over again.........
Now you got me wondering how he would answer this question.....
2007-02-21 00:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Dee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
then you shouldnt have gotten married. you must've been hangin with the boys and partying like you didnt have any sense. when you get married you grow up and committ yourself to your partner for life and be will ing to do whatever it takes to keep them happy,AND would do it a millions times over. i think you do love your wife, but you made the wrong move with her. you werent ready for marriage.
2007-02-21 00:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife left me 3 weeks ago, would I marry her again? Absolutely, and I wouldn't lose her again either.
2007-02-21 00:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DONT LISTEN TO THESE LIARS, ITS NATURAL, AND "ALL" MEN LOSE MORE FREEDOM THAN WOMEN DO, MOST MEN ARE WIMPS AND WON'T ADMIT THIS, BUT THEY FEEL THIS WAY. I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT MAN. MARRIAGE IS A ONE TIME THING FOR ME, IF GOD FORBID SOMETHING HAPPENED, WHY ON EARTH WOULD I DO IT AGAIN.
2007-02-21 00:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋