What do i do if I know my husband is not my soulmate and i found the man that i thought always was?
2007-02-20 16:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by mt4444 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You took a vow, an oath. You made a promise. Through good and bad. You must love your husband or you wouldn't have married him, hopefully. Let your husband be your soul mate and teach him.
2007-02-20 16:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Nonnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine went through this. You need to resolve the issue with your husband first before even thinking about anyone else. Don't confuse your feelings for this other person with the problems with your husband.
Why don't you think your husband is your soulmate? Did you think at one time he was? What changed? You have a responsibility to try to address the problems in your marriage before you think about anyone else. You made a sacred promise and it's your responsibility to try and make it work. Get counseling and see if you can work out your issues. You may find your husband isn't happy either and wants to make changes too. Be open to the fact that you may be contributing to the problems.
If you truly ahve tried everything to make it work and it isn't possible to repair your marriage, then you should file for divorce. But that is a serious decision and it shouldn't be based on your feelings for someone else but rather the situation with your husband.
2007-02-21 00:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh definitely divorce your husband and marry your soulmate. Or just live with him so the next soulmate that attracts your eye you can just move in with him so you don't have to screw around with the legalities of a divorce.
2007-02-21 00:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You go into therapy and find out why you aren't giving your husband a chance. Find out what the definition of a soul mate is and realize that there is no such thing. Quit having fantasies of replacing your husband before you get a divorce. Play fair.
2007-02-21 00:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe that the person that you marry is someone that you
love he/or she may not be your soul mate but they are the one
that gve you the things that you need. as for this other man
how do you know that he the one you might be wrong but
you are married and you need to do what is best for you and
your family. the grass might not be much greener on the other
side. as you may hope, just be careful for what you wish for
you might get it.
2007-02-21 00:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE VERY CAREFUL WITH THIS. I'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS, I KNOW IT'S NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR BUT NO ONE CAN BE YOUR SOULMATE BEFORE GOD IS. AND DID YOU VOW BEFORE GOD IN THIS MARRIAGE. MAYBE YOU JUST HAVE AN EMPTINESS THAT ONLY GOD CAN FILL. I SOUGHT THIS FULFILLMENT AND ALMOST DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE TRYING TO GET IT.
2007-02-21 00:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by HeLovesYou! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart, don't lead this man on. The truth is always the best solution for everything. Plus, you should make yourself happy.
2007-02-21 00:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you get married is what I ask...seems to me you didn't view marriage as an end all but rather settled...
2007-02-21 00:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rethink about what you think you found. Why would you have even married then?
Hopefully there are no kids involved.
2007-02-21 00:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a marriage counsel, it might be just a self insecure or a mid age crisis - happens everytime..... or u can just call it quit - happens everytime.
2007-02-21 00:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal Jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋