Does it REALLY hurt the 1st time you sleep with a guy? Because ..idk.. it kinda would be embarassing. You know?
2007-02-20 15:48:47 · 20 answers · asked by Maximum 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
OK like a do horseback riding...Im a jumper (4ft). Why would horseback riding do something sex?
2007-02-21 18:38:07 · update #1
It hurts because you broke your hymen. Its a little piece of skin that brakes when pressure is added to it. You them bleed and its sore for a couple of days. During the time you first have sex, its hard to relax and keep a straight face.... because of the pain. It may hurt at first but it eventually gets better.......... Happy Humpings!
2007-02-20 16:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello you. Lemme answer that in the best way i could. First, when youre still a virgin, feeling the pain would be inevitable. This happens when the girl isnt prepared (lubricated) to take something inside her. But even when shes already lubricated, and the guy enters her without being careful, more pain will be felt. This can also happen to a girl even it isnt her first time anymore.
What do i suggest to ease out the pain? Take it easy. And i mean in all ways. Not only your body should be ready but your mind and your heart as well. Nothing beats the good feeling of remembering the first time you did it, most esp when its with someone you really love (and not just for the heck of it.)
Again, take it easy babe....and here's wishing that your "first time" will be very memorable for you....
2007-02-21 00:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids can have they're cherry popped too. In India the women is checked by the doctor to see if there cherry has not popped basically to tell if sees a virgen. The parents will pay for a surgery to be done to fix there daughter.Thier family name is tarnished and something bad happens but i dun no... I mean when she was young she could have fell on a bar or some kind of accident. Relieze that they are people out there wasting millions of dollars to not lose that. Yes it does but its not worth. Understand why God cursed us with da pain of birth.
2007-02-20 23:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by smoke_frm_apple 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some people yes and some people no, depends if you are able to relax, and if your Hymen is intact. If your Hymen has broken from other things like riding horses, falling onto a bike bar, using a tampon then it probably wont hurt. The pain doesn't last the whole encounter if it is painful for you.
2007-02-21 00:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really varies from girl to girl. Many things can affect it. Some of those are: do you go horseback riding, do you use tampons, have you had a pap at the doctors office? Those things can affact it.
2007-02-20 23:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, some yes and some no, depend on how nervous and lubricated you are.
The experience may differ due to somethings happening in the past eg: riding a bike / horse and tearing ur hymen.
2007-02-20 23:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by IIDX Chem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't hurt me but I had done Karate for a while so I think that I had probably already torn my hymen. The first time is fun, it is just uncomfortable thats all- but it isn't orgasmic and doesn't feel very good, I mean that it is nice but you wont be brought to orgasm or anything - it gets better after you have done it a few times.
2007-02-21 03:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really hurt me for a long time after my first time.... that's because I was too young, and not ready emotionally or physically... I was 15.
If you're worried about being embarrased... you're losing your virginity to the wrong person. The person you chose should understand and take it really slowly.
2007-02-20 23:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy and how he feels about you.
Try to relax and make sure he is the right person to give yourself too.
2007-02-20 23:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by Pinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt. You may even bleed a little for a few hours afterwards. Don't be alarmed about that - it's normal.
2007-02-20 23:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Manrolls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋