It seems as though my husband doesn't want me to be around that much. Can you guys please tell me how I can get my husband to beg me to go out with him again? please give me some good ideas to keep myself busy.
2007-02-20 15:43:39 · 11 answers · asked by Cindy G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go out with ur friends, go to a movie, or to lunch, go shopping, go out for coffee, etc,
Most guys when they watch u get all dressed up to go out , and they are left behind, they cant take that for very long, so just start actting more independent, start buying things that make u feel good about urself, clothes getting ur hair done, nails, etc, and start going out even if ur only going to visit ur mom, but he thinks ur going somewhere else.. he'll get curious after a couple times..
2007-02-20 15:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked him that question of him not wanting you around? Or, are you just assuming that is what he thinks?
Why do you have to beg him to go out? Just ask him to go out with you to dinner or go watch a movie together. Maybe he finds you to be boring and would rather be alone. If you think he would not rather have you around that much, then maybe there is something bothering him, so ask him.
I would consider on reading these two great books called, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands".
2007-02-20 23:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and say that if he doesn't want to go out with you, you are going anyway. Have a girls night out a couple times a month. Go somewhere you feel safe by yourself and make new friends. Don't rely on him for all your entertainment. I did this and my husband suddenly took an interest in the things I like to do.
2007-02-20 23:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not finding the right person, it's being the right person...
My hubby is anti-social and reclusive. I do a lot of activities with my girlfriends..meaning I have my own life. You have to decide how much isolation you can handle. It does get lonely at times I must say.. But I know I can find a P&P (Penis and a paycheck, lol) elsewhere (with other issues) if I really wanted too. For now I just continue to work on myself and be the best person I can be.. for myself and no one else...
2007-02-21 00:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by Soulfulgrl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this but that is a sign that he is cheating on you ,I no you must feel something is wrong and I no it is the unthinkable but that must be in the back of your mind. me and thousands of other women have been through what you are going through right now. I bet you every single one of us refused to believe our husbands could and would do that to us .Sorry to say this but you will be joining us very soon.
2007-02-20 23:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy by getting a job for one, if you have one get a part-time job, this way you are busy and have extra money to boot.
2007-02-21 00:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can play a mind game with him of playing hard to get. Get involved in activities, groups, fun nights. He may see that you are your own person and then want to know more about you.
2007-02-20 23:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by nurselaura2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, just respect his wishes and leave him alone. Maybe you should quit your nagging and attitude and maybe he'd want to be around you more. Maybe it's not him, it's you. But if that's not the case, then I'd consider his feelings and respect what he asks of you.
2007-02-20 23:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be you. Have fun with your self laugh alot smile . look pretty.Take time for you. do things for you.He will want to follow you. Make fun plans and invite him.If he doesnt go invite your sister or close friend.
2007-02-20 23:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by janine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to an adult toy store and find a replacement gadget..bet, he'll take notice to your new hobbie,especially if you used his last batteries!!!
2007-02-20 23:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by qsbookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋