there is one girl who i don't like because she just freaks me ot so i told her to her fac that i don't like her and now my friends think that i'm mean. am i?
2007-02-20 15:08:29 · 9 answers · asked by aknachbar 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
yes you should. consider her feelings,it is what makes us human.
2007-02-20 15:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i honestly cant say because.. it depends on how you said and truthfully some people need to hear the truth... but sometimes the truth can break someones spirit... but at the same time was like you couldnt tolerate the girl or was she just like a girl that really wanted to be your friend and was nice to you... if she was that then yes you were mean... but if not and she was like a fake person who talked behind your back then yea she Deserved it.
2007-02-20 23:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have the right to morally demean someone when they did nothing. One must learn how to coexist- perhaps it's a human flaw that many don't.
But yeah- it does sound a little mean.
Sometimes being frank is worse than saying nothing.
2007-02-20 23:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not a straight foward question so I'm going to give you a NON-straight forward answer. If the girl killed herself tonight b/c you were the only person she could talk to how would you feel: but then again if she's coming on to you and you don't swing that way (i can't believe I'm saying that) then what do you do?
2007-02-20 23:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If all you said was that you don't like her, that's not mean, that's honest. If you added rude or degrading comments to that statement, then you probably should care because there is undoubtedly someone out there who doesn't like you much and you wouldn't want them to treat you badly for it. What goes around really does come around.
2007-02-20 23:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you'd just be following common human nature, which is inherently evil.
2007-02-20 23:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Dennis J 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you have to ask that then you know your a redneck.
2007-02-20 23:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if they hurt you first.
if she did nothing, you are mean
2007-02-20 23:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Trid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have compassion for all
2007-02-22 23:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by patricia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋