We are very interested in having a threesome for the first time, but have not the slightest idea where to start looking... any ideas?
2007-02-20 15:00:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The first place to start would be on swingers dating sites like Swingular, Swappernet, Swinglifestyle, or Lifestyle Lounge.
Here is some good info from The Swingers Board FAQ section:
Why is it so hard to find a single female to join us?
The answer to this question is fairly simple; supply and demand. There just aren't many single females in the lifestyle. Most females that are in the lifestyle are half of a couple and many couples don't like to split up to play. The other side of the problem is that single females (bi in particular) are the most sought after portion of the swinging population. While there are more than enough single males to go around, most single females either don't know about the lifestyle or just aren't interested. Most of those that are involved in the lifestyle were brought in by a previous boyfriend or husband.
So are the couples who want a single female completely out of luck?
Don't give up, and consider opening your options. If you are looking for a single female to play mainly with the female half of your couple, then perhaps you could look for a couple with a bi-female and a husband who doesn't mind watching. But remember, this won't be fun for long... eventually people start to feel like they are being left out, of course that doesn't mean you have to swap partners. You could always let the women play together then when they are done the guys can enjoy their own partners. However, if you are looking for a female so that you can have a threesome, then you will just have to be patient. It happens but you may have to wait a while. The best advice I have heard when it comes to finding a single female is to look at those single females that you already know. It will be much easier to talk to a friend and possibly get them to join you for some fun, than it will be to find a stranger. Also, if you are an out-going couple you might consider just checking out the local night clubs you may find a female or two there willing to go home with you for a night of fun.
2007-02-21 07:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for 38 years and the spark and passion is not only still there but it is better now than ever. We raised 4 kids and they are all grown and on their own. Now we have more time for each other. We are best friends and we are constantly thinking of the others needs. We enjoy doing a lot of the same things and we seem to go together like peanut butter and jelly. I have no idea how we can talk to each other all the time and never tire of it. We have actually passed up exits on the highway because we were into a deep conversation and didn't see the sign. We so seldom argue. I can't even remember the last time we argued. However, it never last for long. We never go to bed angry. Actually, we never stay angry for very long one of us will always make the other one laugh and then that's the end of the anger. I think some couples are just meant to be together. I think the number one thing that is a must in a marriage is a sense of humor.
2016-05-24 00:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice low key college bars/clubs . Look for the most naive looking girl in the bar. Quiet and standoffish. Send in the man first to brake the ice not the woman. Just when you get a bead on bi potential signal the woman to come in and seal the deal. Never make sex obvious, just get her home. If she is young, dumb, and a little drunk or stoned....you will have a good time. Remember to always play within your league.
2007-02-20 15:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Check the classified ads of your local "alternative" newspaper (almost every decent sized city has one). You know, that weekly newspaper with the edgy articles, concert advertisements, and alternative music scene inserts. In Anchorage, Alaska, it was called the "Anchorage Press", and in the classified section, there was a section for couples seeking a partner.
Hope this helps...
2007-02-20 15:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have swingers clubs look in the phone book you want someone who is clean and they check out those peeps.
2007-02-20 15:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any sex connection sites should do.. usually they have a section that says "I am/We Are a" Then you can choose "Couple" then theres a section that says "Looking for a" then you can choose "Woman" then the age range and state/city..
try the sites below =]
2007-02-20 15:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by beth3988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online you can find swing clubs in your area or an online service like adult friend finder. you could consider a friend if you are comfortable with that and attracted.
2007-02-20 15:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
local personal ads, internet
2007-02-20 15:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by kar506 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adultfriendfinder.com. Comes highly recommended from those who have used it, I hear.
2007-02-20 15:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bars or put a newspaper add
2007-02-20 15:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by cailincox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋