Why do I like bad boys?

Question

For some reason, I sometimes find my self liking guys who drink, smoke, do drugs, and skip school. If I went out with one, would MY reputation be at risk or anything? I'm not sure if it's a good idea but I'd like to. Besides, I never run into good guys that I'm interested in. Please help!

Answer 1

I went through the "bad boy" phase too. Now, I'm married to a cop. Funny ain't it.

Answer 2

Sweetie,your a teenager that is why.Your mind is intrigued by rebellion.That is normal.Obviously,you do not take part in those things,so someone who has the courage to do so(Not calling you a coward,you are sensible) is very interesting to you.Often times,older females never get over the bad boy image.Generally,almost the biggest part of those "Bad boys" are not only going with the image,they are "Bad boys".You will begin to grow up and your mind will mature,and find others appealing.However,you do need to give everyone a chance.As,they could simply open your eyes and change your mind.You tend to find those bad boys attractive when you are younger.As you grow up,often times you grow out of it.If you should go out with one of those "bad boys",there is a possibility that your reputation could be tainted.If you are willing to look past that then you could give it a try.Although,i urge you to look beyond the outside image.Look inside them not that bad boy image outside.You do not want to get involved with drinkers,smokers,druggies and definately those who skip school.As more than likely you will be expected to do those things as well.You have to make the decision,but if i were you wouldnt get mixed in with the bad crowd as you sound like a very sensible young lady.Good luck hun and have a good night.

Answer 3

You are judged by the company you keep.

Yes your rep would slip. Not only that but you would start to hang out with different kids. It is not an upward path.

My daughters used to like bad boys too. They thought they could change them. Well the only thing you can change on a male are his diapers when he is a baby or an old man. They are bad boys because they are selfish and usually are only concerned with the thrill of the moment. They rarely have a vision for the future and end up at 711 or some lackluster low paying job.

Fortunately, both girls saw through this quickly. They also knew that these boys might have cars and do "neat" stuff but that was the height of their lives. My girls are gorgeous and both decided nerds were the best for a long term thing. Look at Bill Gates. Well don't look LOL. He was a major little goofus in school. Now?

One of the nerds my daughter still dates... now owns 4 of the best skater clothing shops in the province. He has cash to burn and he has, at 35, cars the bad boys could nor afford in their dreams. And he is faithful to her. Because, she is beautiful and loved him before his stores took off. Now he is very cool, grew out of the nerdiness.

My other girl still hangs with nerds because, beauty or not, she is a computer math geek. The two bad boys she dated hit her at least once. No more of that crap for her. In high school she hung with nerds because they all did schoolwork together. Sounds dull but she is a happy kid.

I had a boarder who went out with bad boys. She would not listen to good sense. After two years I had to have her shipped off to a drug facility to dry out. She got pregnant. Had od's. Stole my car.Learned to drink like a fish and do drugs, not just weed. The influence of bad boys. $150 000 later her parents have her back dry. It was hanging with the wrong crowd and these boys are the wrong crowd.

The other thing is, American pop culture seems to glorify the rebel boy. It started with Marlon Brando and James Dean in the 50's and has never gone away. You see these guys glorified in movies like Grease or Sopranos or Godfathers.

Not all good boys are dull. Some just have healthier pursuits. What you have to do is be a smart girl with an eye to your future. This is a stage you are in. Get through it and remember your future.

SILLY LILLY. My husbands have all had long hair, and they are not bad boys!

Answer 4

Being undesirable for sexual gratification is in maximum situations in simple terms slightly a minefield, Scoundy. After, we could say ''a sexual lean era'' i began out a cult, placing myself up by using fact the Angel of Darkness with the way forward for absolute ruler of all in the actual airplane. After some weeks canvassing for punters and merchandising in keep homestead windows, I held my first Orgy, yet different than for the general 40 some thing over weight, vulnerable- bladdered, divorcees, no women persons became up in any respect. the girls people who did come, did each and every of the hail devil lord of darkness lip service, regardless of the undeniable fact that it replaced into all lies and lots from being Beelzibub the grasp of the underworld, i think extra like a under pressure whore compelled to shelter hellishly unnatural overall performance targets and if it wasn't for the sparkling clothing, warm food and entirely depraved blow-j0bs - i could supply all of it up day after today

Answer 5

Yes, your reputation would be ruined, and you would probably be a "bad girl" too. I think you are attracted to them because you see them as free spirits, they seem to have all the fun. But, in actuality, they are probably from broken homes, or they have no one to love them and go home to..or their parents are drinkers and drug abusers...I would stay away from this group of kids, because your future could be tarnished and once this occurs it is hard to prove yourself otherwise..Be a hard working student and focus on your having fun in school and music or sports. Try to stay away from "bad" influences. You have your whole life ahead to date and be interested in someone that is worth being interested in...

Answer 6

i think all of us go through the bad boy stage its been that way for years. Your reputation is always at risk no matter what you do. Don't worry about anyone else and be yourself

Answer 7

this often happens when the girl's father did not treat her very well (used drugs, left the family, etc). it could also be a phase women sometimes go through. try going out with guys who aren't super attractive- the most attractive guys to you will be bad guys. if you can't stop, a counselor should be able to help you.

Answer 8

Hey, it's a natural thing.....I too go for the bad boys.....Hell, all my friends are bad boys!!!!! But it's just a danger thing, that get's you pumped and believe you can tame him.....But some of the time you can't......As for your rep,if it's that important to you, then don't worry about guys......But if not then f**** it!!!!! It ain't important......All it is, is labeling people and saying what kinda person you are....So what?! Do what YOU want to do, and not worry about what people are gonna say or think, or do!!!!!! Be yourself, do what YOU want to do, and not give a damn about anyone else's opinions!!!!!! ( That is if you didn't ask for it.....)Lol......

Answer 9

i'm like that too i think the reason why bad boys are so attactive is because they live life on the edge sometimes they're not so bad other times they're just hot and they have no personality

Answer 10

lol! girl i was in the same boat until recently when i finally started liking a dude like me, athletic, smart, and not a school DROP OUT. just chill out. if you think you can be with them and not fall down with them then go ahead. but help them come up. trust itll be hard, it was for me, so i got out that game and waited for a dude like him...also, it was draining me and my energy. so now that i think about it...try not to do that. opposites attract but sometimes its just not healthy