i think thats how u spell maturity but w/e. My cousin is a young teen pretty much a pre- teen and she told me she feels like she is too mature for her age. How much info mostly on sexual information do u think preteens should know and what type of things? thanks- this question is probobly hard to answer.
2007-02-20 14:23:21 · 13 answers · asked by xo_peanut_xo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hey, with information spreading from almost on anything, I say it would be better to give it straight and simple, no sugar coating. give your opinion too, she might as well take it...
2007-02-20 18:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Foxwolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-teens should be informed about sex, only to help them to understand and to protect them. It pays to be open with kids because they find out who they can trust and come too when they need too. But sexual protection needs to be explained in detail too.Usually when they feel they are mature for their age, they usually are. They see the kids in their own age group as immature and they can recognize this very easily. Just speak to her about staying away from the older kids too, because that could be very dangerous if she is not careful. Be sure her parents don't mind you talking to her...
2007-02-21 01:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sad thing is that many pre-teens are too mature for their age. however, i believe it is important for children early on to know correct information about everything, including sex. when they start asking questions, start giving them the best answers (that are good for their age). as long as you dont lie to them then they should know anything. its better if they find out information from someone who has knowledge rather than from their friends.
2007-02-20 15:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by ashesz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 13, I knew quite a bit about sex. Teens know more than you think. If she wants to know all there is to know about the physical act of sex, all she has to do is find free porn on the internet. That's pretty easy.
2007-02-20 14:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 10:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my kids knew all about sex by the time they where 10 y/o i just sat them down and explained it to them
if your asking if pre-teens are mature enough for sex no they are not
2007-02-20 21:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more the merrier right??? better to know all the bad details at a young age that way you are prepared for problems later in life
2007-02-20 15:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by sambucca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as teen maturity. teens are just learning how to make the right choices about stuff and therefore are not mature. and having a knowledge about sex does not make you mature. its good to have that knowledge so you can choose whether or not to participate in that sort of activity and you know whats going to happen and how to prevent pregnancy and all that good stuff.
2007-02-20 14:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
i know most of it and i'm 13....... my mom told me from the beginning about this type of thing so i knew what to expect when i got older..... it was good though so i knew what was happening and didnt believe any of the nonsense u hear around the playground.... so to speak...... and there is nothing wrong w/ being mature.......
2007-02-20 14:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not a difficult question to answer, actually. You should be open and tell her everything she wants to know.
2007-02-20 16:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋