Everyone knows that when you drink you become less inhibited and do things you normally wouldn't do. If you think you are straight, and then end up having a girl-girl fling when you are drunk, does this mean you are a lesbian? Or is every woman secretly gay?
2007-02-20 14:14:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well, my experience isn't with a girl, but one of my "idle" best guy friends- i'm a guy too. It happened, and I had this strong sense it would. Alcohol was involved, yes. But, I just had a funny feeling. I don't know how to explain it, but you can just feel what they are emotionally thinking. That's why I made a move. But, he still goes out with girls and has NOT told another sould about the experiences with me. (3 times total).
2007-02-20 19:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by chrisj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are straight and have a drunken fling, that does not automatically make you a lesbian. It's perfectly normal to experiment with the same sex, but easier to do with lowered inhibitions. Also, I've seen many straight girls kiss each other for attention or simply because their friends, not lovers.
I'm completely straight, but I do have one girl friend I will occasionally kiss, drunk or not. It's not sexual, we're just that comfortable with one another.
2007-02-26 13:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, here in my country there is a saying: no drunk eats ****. That means no matter how drunk or high can you get, you won't do anything you really don't want to do. If you do something like kissing a same gender people, it happens because deep inside you, you want to. I don't think possible every woman secretly could be gay, may be you are bi. But it is up to you, it is your decision what to do with your feelings. Luck.
2007-02-28 08:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Pato FV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman has a girl to girl encounter when drinking it does not mean she is a lesbian unless she likes it so much she makes it a habit.
And no...every woman is not "secretly gay". Having said that I will say that women in general are much more likely to try lesbian sex on an experimental basis than men are to try gay sex.
2007-02-28 07:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, at some point in life, every woman at least thinks about it. When drinking, judgement is so impaired, that you'll do anything if it looks interesting. Personally, I've been with 2 "straight" friends of mine. Both happened, whilst drunk. They're stilll "straight"....but i know.....
2007-02-28 04:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Bekki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. alcohol does not affect your sexual orientation. i know guys both str8 and gay who drink more than they need to and don't go after the "other" sex. i'm not a woman, i'm a t-girl 24/7 but i'm not drunk all the time. i do prefer a little pampering with drink before i'm ploughed tho! lol!!
2007-02-27 02:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, everyone is born sinful because of Adam's disobedience to God. God told Adam that if he ate of the forbidden tree in the middle of the garden, then he would understand evil and experience death. God warned Adam not to but knowing that he would, God had a plan.
Adam did eat the fruit. We have inherited Adam's sin nature. We all have the potential to be liars, murders, homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, thieves, or any other of the things that God knows will cause problems and cause us to sin.
That is why God sent Jesus to us. To die on the cross for the sin of those who will accept Him as their Lord and Savior and repent of sin. Which means to turn away from sin.
Acceptance of Jesus as God's only begotten Son, is required in order to obtain forgiveness and eternal life, which is God's free gift, to those who believe.
2007-02-28 04:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secretly gay? no. I think you said it already, just less inhibited.
2007-02-28 08:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by IzzyBelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive known a lot of seemingly straight girls who have gotten into a girl/girl situation because of alcohol ~ i dont think most women are secretly gay....but a lot of the time girls are comfortable with other girls ~ i dont think it makes one gay....its experimental and stuff
2007-02-28 07:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Princess*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!!! I think Motherof3 needs to get out of the house a little more often!
2007-02-28 06:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋