I know im not alone, because i live with 5 roomate, im in a sorority, have a tone of friends. But i just feel so lost and alone. Nothing seems to excite me or drive me anymore. Im not depressed i just feel blahhh ...
2007-02-20 14:09:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Actually, you may be depressed. If you can see a doctor, do so, and tell him/her how you feel. A little counseling could be quite effective for you, and/or a short course of an anti-depressant (some of these are quite effective over just a short term--you won't necessarily be taking them the rest of your life). Because it sounds like you ought to be having more fun and taking more interest in life than you are.
(NOTE OF CAUTION: I have read in the Wall Street Journal that some colleges/universities are taking note of students who come into campus health services seeking treatment for depression, and some of these colleges are kicking the students out--they don't want to get sued if the student harms him/herself. If $$$ is a concern, see if there's a free/low cost health PUBLIC health clinic in town and go there on this matter.)
2007-02-20 14:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here Kittty, Kitty, Kitty. Yes, I do. I don't feel as sad as I did, almost 3 years ago. But I do feel lonely and unhappy, like you.
Are you looking for companionship? Maybe a new friend? If you're 20 or older, I'd be more than happy, to play that roll in your lfe/to fill that gap for you. Where I live, there's a university and a community college.
2007-02-20 14:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we share the same predicament.... life is so melancholic, everyday is a struggle, there is a sense of emptiness. sometimes i also feel sad without knowing why! its a bullshit feeling! maybe just enjoy what you have right now and things will turn right. i think its just a phase on everyones life! as they say sadness is self-inflicted while hapiness is self-induce so its still up to us which road we will take! go with someone or enjoy ur friends! always smile and enjoy each day! carpe diem!
2007-02-20 14:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by holler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you obtain divorced and then had a boyfriend who dumped you by a textual content? Gotta ask how lengthy were you married; how lengthy had you dated you ex bf? What replaced into the time period in between ex hubby and ex bf? Now, i'm in a similar project; and sense that it merely might want to be hopeless to discover someone correct or particular; and perhaps if we are fortunate we locate someone ok who might want to stay with us for awhile. My spouse left me (and everyone else contained in the international) an afternoon and a month before Valentine's Day. that could no longer be the suited of the international; yet at the same time as she left, her coronary heart stopped beating the day before our anniversary. I wondered love, God, her, why might want to she stay alive one extra day? Why contained in the international, did she might want to die the day before our anniversary. i know, human beings die on Christmas; birthdays; each of the time. It hurts at situations, and also you probable awaken contained in the middle of the evening wondering one in each of your exes are there; yet comprehend they don't seem, yet what hurts extra is that when that occurs to me; I comprehend i will by no potential see that individual back. To me, you seem to be someone who couldn't be on my own; yet then seems are frequently deceiving. do not supply up; perhaps supply in somewhat, try something new or distinct. it truly is hard to discover someone; how lengthy did it take you in searching the others who did not very last?
2016-10-17 08:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way but i've lost connection with all my friends. i do feel depressed but i try to ignore it. i do feel bad but all my friends are still into the high school thing and i out grew that after graduation and the others are married and have kids. maybe we can talk online and see if we can cheer each other up.
2007-02-20 14:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by gansito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...is this the first time you have been away from home/family?
that can make just about anyone feel "alone" even when you are with people
you are correct - feeling blue is not always depression - but if you keep feeling this way, wouldn't hurt to speak to a doctor or such...
take care
2007-02-20 14:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by JustSo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel just as bad or worse then you. my gf has cheated on me 4 times and blames it on me for our disintergrating relationship. im suicidal and getting terrible grades in school. but i guess i can only go up from here. im not sure why God has put me in this situation but i no He has a plan for me and we go through everything for a reason...mayb Gods letting you feel this way to let you know that mayb you should try and go find someone to be with, or just acknowledge ur never alone. in the toughest of times God carries us
2007-02-20 14:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the exact same way, and I know that I have alot to be thankful for and that I shouldn't be depressed, but I can't help but feel the same way. I just wish I had someone who could make me feel whole...Just missing a piece of myself.
2007-02-20 14:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by choirboyzryummy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's something missing right? Find a lover.
2007-02-20 14:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by rach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre not alone lol
2007-02-20 14:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋