I have always wondered if other girls look at other girls bodies in the locker room and have, you know, thoughts about them. Is that wrong? I've been very sheltered all my life, and I feel a little guilty. Is it wrong to think about other girls like that? Does this mean I am a lesbian or bi? I definitely like guys. Is there a way to tell if other girls in the locker room do the same thing or have the same feelings? Is it wrong to think about wanting to, like, kiss another girl! So many questions.......sincerely, confused 18 yr old girl.
2007-02-20 13:17:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, i think its normal to be curious espesscially if you've been sheltered. Maybe it's the "forbidden" part about being with a girl that sets your wheel a rollin'. It doesnt sound like you're bi or lesbian because if you were it would be more than a curious or sexual thing...it would be an emotional thing. Have you ever felt really strongly about a guy? Now picture yourself with a girl the same way...does it feel odd? If it does then you're not bi or lesbian you just wonder what all the fuss is about. If it doesnt feel odd and it feels more natural than being with a guy...then you may be. But you probably would have noticed as a child.
2007-02-27 17:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by imakulaff2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol.
well personally i hate being in a locker room and have other girls check me out, i'm swaeting and that makes me feel like eww and at the time of feeling like that i dont want other looking at me change.
In the other hand when i was in HS many of the girls did look at other girls changing and trust me it was not in a jealous way, it was pretty clear why they were looking.
Its ok if you look at other girls just try not staring for a LONG time because then its pretty obvious.
Yeah like CRAZY BI CHIK said, dont get caught ;)
I didnt lol.
Yeah its cool to also have those thoughs of wanting to kiss them, i did but not in a locker room lol.
Yeah I love guys, but that is not going to stop me from exploring other options.
Go with the flow meawhile.
Explore explore- have fun.
We are all exploring still at 18 ;) some even through their 20s
so chill girl and have fun!
2007-02-22 13:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Locker rooms are the same for both genders. I change in front of other women all the time. Also i've been to some women's clothing stores that only have one HUGE *** dressing room and everyone just goes in and changes. Not only that but women are WAY more insecure than men. Just because our breast size isn't a secret doesn't mean most women aren't insecure about it. And women are concerned about every single aspect of their body while men are only concerned with their penis size. It is WAY harder to be a woman than it is to be a man.
2016-05-24 00:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea its normal for girl to do that especially in a locker room where everbody is changing. It depends on you if you are lesbian or bisexual. Sometimes you can be just confused but for me it turned out i was bisexual i had the same feelings when i saw girls. And about trying to find out the whole if other girl do that too i dont know but i hope this helps!!!
2007-02-20 13:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by techno_freak72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are curious about what others of the same sex look like. Then again you mentioned that you did have feelings for those other women and wanted to even kiss some of them. You could be bisexual if you still like guys. Just take things a day at a time and explore your desires at your own pace.
2007-02-20 14:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is coming from a straight woman......I have looked at other women in the locker room. I mean, you can't help but SEE them, right? Anyway, male AND female forms can be beautiful. I have seen females in the locker room whose bodies I thought were truly beautiful. I did not want to sleep with them, but I could appreciate that they were beautiful. I think that is normal.
2007-02-25 05:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure you like guys but looking at other girls bodies makes you think about kissing other girls, you might be bi. Straight, Bi or Gay, it's normal for people to checkout bodies of the same sex, often it's just to compare.
2007-02-20 13:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by SmallVoiceInBigWorld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal to look at other girls they is nothing wrong with it....every girl thinks of kissing another girl atleast once in there life...but i think u mayb bi but you just dont know it yet
2007-02-28 00:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by Chocolit B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes.
Even some straight girls look at other women's bodies
As a guy, I've never seen what they look at in the locker room but I've watched x-rated movies with fairly conservative straight girls and I doubt they are any different in the locker room.
wat they think would depend thier orientation
2007-02-20 13:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural for everyone to check out everyone else (regardless of sex) but we're not suppose to admit that we do it. You are a lesbian or bi if you answer yes to : Do I want to have sex with a woman? That's it. That's the magic question.
2007-02-20 13:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋