Why do people change? How can you be about someone one minute and then the next, forget they even exist?
2007-02-20 13:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
John used to be caring, nice and trusting.
Danny realized this about John.
Danny borrows money from John.
Danny doesn't have any intention of giving back the money.
John thinks otherwise.
John never gets the money back.
John is upset.
John loses his trust in people.
John changes.
2007-02-20 13:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People change because we learn. The more we learn, the more we realize that our previous behaviors and beliefs may not be as right as we had hoped. Or we simply want to improve who we are.
As for being about someone one minute and not the next . . . . that sounds more like immaturity and a lack of self awareness than someone changing.
2007-02-20 13:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change is inevitable.
Think back to even two years ago; are you the same person now as you were back then? Of course! Your grow, you learn, and experience life. You can't expect to not change at all in your lifetime.
As to your question about liking someone and then not, opinion change. People change. Let's say a guy named Matt liked a girl named Laura, but she kept pushing him off. He got to know Laura and realized she was a jerk. Why keep liking a jerk?
2007-02-20 13:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question doesn't make sense, but if you mean why do we change (personality wise), we change as we experience, because we incorporate the new knowledge and place that into our behavoir patterns.
If you mean how can someone be "in love" with someone, and not a few days/weeks/etc later...hormones, experience, growing apart, any number of reasons. Life evolves, changes, it's nature...it's life.
2007-02-20 13:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they develop a new outlook due to the neuroplasticity in their brain.
[neuroplasticity is when our brains rearrange to form new connections and pathways in different parts of the brain due to learning something new, or rethinking their current outlook on life]
and, they may not choose to keep a specific item in their life. Sometimes the guilt or other things that overwhelm them may cause them to force themselves to ban another person completely from their life.
2007-02-20 13:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Cherry bebè! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people just chang it is a way of life
2007-02-20 13:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is changing from day to day, either forced by situation or they are not true enough to themselves...some even change for better ,because they learn and practise through life and experiences
2007-02-20 13:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by ~~simply me~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally,all people change because of their nature. you know Adam and eve story. like that, everyone have their own involvement to act for something that would fetch more money or any other gain for them.
2007-02-20 13:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by midas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We change to make ourselves better for ourself, or others. It's inevitable to avoid change, since we always must adapt to our current state, and everything around us is changing, so we do too
2007-02-20 13:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Chaotic_Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day you will experience a change of your own. Then you will know the answer to your question, grasshopper. ohmmm.
2007-02-20 13:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Konswayla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋