Why do people make a big scene by making out in public? Don't accuse older men ogling your younger girl then!

Question

I think it's rude that young couples, especially teenage couples, have to show off by locking lips and smooching for a long time. I mean, I've done stuff like that too, but some of you couples go way too far!!! How do you think lonely singles feel who yearn for intimate companionship when they see that? Some feel pretty jealous! What kind of impression do you think it will leave on the smaller (non-teen) children? All of you might be setting a bad example for people younger and younger that get into lust way too quick without learning what love is about first. Playing the lip locking game way too young might entice early hormones in young people who may turn out to be out of control! Please people - SHOW SOME RESPECT!

Answer 1

Yup :-)
So true.
It's nasty too, no one wants to see that.

Answer 2

Been there, seen that. I was at my son's wrestling match and my 7 and 10 year old daughters were with me. At the end of the match, there was this couple, not older than 13 years old in the top of the bleachers with their tongues all out of their mouths like they had no idea what they were doing but wanted everyone to watch anyway. Yuck.. I told them they were gross and I would call their parents. The sad part of it all is that children are maturing sexually so quickly nowadays because alot of parents give them so many unsupervised opportunities with the hormones in an uproar.

Answer 3

The front of the brain grows till your 22 years old. Teenagers suddenly have some freedom and they are all over the place. Which is why they do stupid things and get themselves in so much trouble.

Answer 4

I agree. I hate public displays of affection. It's called get a room and get out of my face. If I wanted to watch people make out, I'd- And you know the rest.

And it's not just teenage couples, young adults do it all the time.

Answer 5

They know EXACTLY how it feels to be a lonely single, and they want EVERYONE to know that they are not one anymore...

Same deal with hickey's... GROSS... but I wore them like a badge of honor cause I FINALLY had a boyfriend, and I wanted everyone to know it!! I'd been jealous of others for so long, I wanted someone to be jealous of me.

They'll grow out of it

Answer 6

I agree, there should be a law against it.

Answer 7

the only really good thing you said here was how it's not right for couples to be doing that in public since it could make lonely singles feel bad with them realizing how they're missing out on sexual activity with members of the opposite sex, and yes, it might make them jealous, including of that person whose making out with that member of the opposite sex, if they're into that member of the opposite sex. however, what you said other than that, like about sexual desires and hormones and all that, you were really ignorant and off base. I understand that sexual activity might be something that should only be experienced amongst people who are at least as old as in their teens, I get that, I understand that, I agree with that, however, your vague assessment of those younger than their teenage years seeing scenes of people making out in public and how it would supposedly effect them later on when they themselves are in their teens or older, was absurd and made no sense. first off, "lust" is one of the most ridiculous words ever made up, since it's completely normal and natural for guys to be sexually into women(even though women are never sexually into guys), and there's nothing wrong with it at all. if guys were never sexually horny for women, guys would never be having sex with women in the first place. you didn't specify if you were a guy or a woman, but based on your ignorant assumptions of sexuality between guys and women, I'm guessing you're a woman, as I wouldn't expect any woman to understand the normal, natural state of guys being sexually into women, unless maybe it's explained to them. no matter what underage individuals see, even if it's anything sexual-related, they're still going to grow up into teenagers, and then full-grown adults, and as far as boys who grow up into teenagers and then full-grown adult guys, no matter what they saw or remember when they were a kid, they WILL be sexually into and sexually horny for women for foreplay and sex with them, and it will be completely normal and natural and there will be nothing wrong or "sinful" about it at all, and they will want and need it with women for the very sake of it itself, whether they find the so-called "right person" or not, and as far as girls who grow up into teenagers and then full-grown adult women, they will continue to never have a need for foreplay or sex with any guys, as no woman in this world wants or needs it, but since guys need it with women, women need to say yes to guys and give it to them like they're supposed to, since even though women don't need it with guys, guys need it with women. as long as the guy at least tries to look good to her to at least some degree, she needs to give him credit and recognition for it and sexually ok him. and by the way, there's no such thing as the "right person". besides, the idea of the so-called "right person" contradicts the concept of freewill. if you're supposed to only have a long-term relationship with the "right person", what if this "right person" died just days after you met them, or what if they died long before you ever even met them? what then? would this "right person" suddenly magically be someone else? how would that work? would that person somehow be magically altered against their will whether they know about it or not? if so, then that takes away that person's freewill as they're somehow turned into a certain type of person just to suit that other person's needs for a long-term relationship. there's no such thing as the "right person". also, it's wrong for women to be too damn picky and only decide to get with ONE guy, as that would be unfair to any other guys that might be into her. women should be open to being "friends with benefits" with guys, as guys are indeed into this with women. if marriage means the woman no longer ever giving any other guys opportunities to get sexual with her, then marriage is generally awful ad it's likely caused a lot of harm and sexual frustration amongst guys. guys need foreplay and sex with women to be happy, enjoy life, and want to live, but vice versa is not the case at all, so women need to give guys sexual opportunities with them out of compassion, and if women staying single and having openly sexual encounters with guys helps maximize the possibility of that, then women should be doing that for at least a while. guys are willing to sleep with more than one woman, so women should be willing to sleep with more than one guy.