boyfriend cannot ejaculate with condom on, is that normal?

Question

I've realised my boyfriend can never ejaculate inside me, even when sexual intercourse goes for 1 or 2hrs. I consulted him about the issue, he claims that it is because he cannot feel the intensity with a condom on. We even tried purchasing ultra-thins, however that has not helped. Every time we had to pull out, and a quick handjob (maybe 1-2mins) does it.

This bothers me because I feel a lot of pressure about wearing a condom during sex. I am on BC pills, however to protect both of us from STDs and such i believe having condom for extra protection is a must.

So my questions are:
1. Should we try sex without a condom (while on BC pills), is it safe?
2. Is his situation normal? his age is 23

Answer 1

Lots of guys who are circumcised can't ejaculate from intercourse, with ot without a condom, so the condom may not be the problem. If he's cut, it's normal for him to have to finish by hand. If that bothers him, he could consider restoration: http://www.norm.org - but that's a long process.

If you are both disease-free and totally faithful and you're on the pill, the condom seems unnecessary. But don't be surprised if he still has to pull out to finish.

Answer 2

Normal.

Safe sex is not a bad thing, just do what you each need to do to satisfy each other, while playing it safe. You'll be together.

No ultra-thins or lamb-skins. This defeats the purpose of wearing a condom altogether.

Answer 3

You should be happy cause as most women you probably would get mad and start looking elsewhere for sex cause he would be done in 10 seconds and you would be getting him a beer and a sandwich WAY too soon!

Answer 4

broke is right but the other thing is that if you know that he is not sleeping around on you then do it with out the condom as you see it will not stop him from com(ng with out it and if he has some thing you would have it by now from his precum . good luck

Answer 5

u should be happy!!!!