how would you address their attitudes about higher education? How would you dispel their fears and it is a worthwhile endeavor.
2007-02-20 12:01:42 · 6 answers · asked by foxylady 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, I have to say, that's the first.
Honestly, I would have them go to the campus that you plan to go to and go on a tour. Talk to a representative to help you convince them that you are in good hands. And the pros of going to college.
There are wants and needs in life. To me college is a necessity. But not all of us can get there. You are very lucky if you can make it. And that is a point that you can also make to your family as well.
2007-02-20 13:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them of all the benefits higher education will bring you. Many families like the thought of being able to show off their children when they have succeded in a rarely accomplished task. Fearlessly tell them of all the good things and oppurtunities a higher education institution offers young people. If money is a problem prove to your family that the benefits to be gained will outweigh the small sacrifices.
2007-02-20 20:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ana C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out a way you can pay for your own education--government loals, etc.; work and save, whatever--if that's the situation!! If your parents are paying, promise that you will pay them back!! I can't imagine WHY one's parents would criticize your decision to to go college!!! If that's what you want to do--do it!! If you have to talk them into paying for it, that's another issue! Ask them to pay for one year of college. Prove to them that you are serious and that you will pay them BACK!! Prove to them that you can do well, and if they are STILL not willing to help you with college---BORROW and pay it off through the years AFTER school!! It's WELL worth it!! If that's the issue! What on EARTH do they want you to do??? Are you a second-generation of a first generation of immigrants?? I don't mean that in a derogatory manner--but many families consider marriage and children for a woman as a first priority? I forgot to see if you are a man or woman....Good Luck! You need to do what you believe is the BEST option for you!!
2007-02-20 21:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by Martell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You value college and your family does not. Agree to disagree. Allow them to feel their feelings and also allow yourself to feel your feelings. Perhaps they will never value higher education and perhaps you will always value higher education. Don't expect to convince them of anything. Just follow your heart and pursue the dreams that you value.
2007-02-20 20:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by TicK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll make big bucks and wear a chastity belt, no drugs and no suds
2007-02-20 20:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by larryclay2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to college far away. Otherwise they might distract you.
2007-02-20 20:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by wcarolinew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋