I am sad. My father died. Do you can help me?

Question

When I was a young boy, my father took me into the city to see a marching band. He said, "Son when you grow up, would you be the savior of the broken, the beaten and the damned? Will you defeat them, your demons, and all the non-believers, the plans that they have made? Because one day I'll leave you, a phantom to lead you in the summer, To join the black parade." Sometimes I get the feeling she's watching over me and other times I feel like I should go. And through it all, the rise and fall, the bodies in the streets. And when you're gone we want you all to know We'll carry on, and though you're dead and gone believe me your memory will carry on and in my heart I can't contain it. The anthem won't explain it. A world that sends you reeling from decimated dreams.Your misery and hate will kill us all. So paint it black and take it back let's shout it loud and clear, defiant to the end we hear the call.

Answer 1

I think you're full of sh!t

Answer 2

I am extremely sorry to hear that you are going through a very painful phase right now,this may sound Greek but anything painful is fleeting,allow yourself to grieve because healing will occur after,I do believe in giving one's self time to go through each process,I don't believe in short cuts.
I lost my ex-husband to a much older woman,it crushed my heart as well as my ego,at that time,I felt like the world was caving in on me and that I was just waiting for death to knock on my door,meaning,I didn't believe I would ever heal,I did!!!
It merely proved to be a huuuuge growing-up moment,I actually discovered my strengths from something I used to believe was a disaster.
It takes great courage for a male to accept an issue such as this,acceptance is the first step,I can see that you are on your way to peace. I wish you peace.

Answer 3

some people take thier relitives or parents death to a level ofdepresion or some people hurt them selves as in abusing themselfs or when it gets to far they end up to suicid but really those people who do that stuff end up dead or hurt but did it solve anything no come on think about dont be stupid because by killing your self or hurting yourself cuases other people who love you feel and go threw the same thing so be smart and make the right choice GOODLUCK!!!!

Answer 4

I am sorry to hear about your loss. The best way I know of to get over the grief is to remember the happy times not the sadness of the loss. Remember things you enjoyed together, places you went, laughs you had, and know when you still do those things that your dad is still with you in your heart and still will be enjoying them with you. I am sure your dad would not want to see you sad and grieving, he would want to see you happy and enjoying life.

Answer 5

Try writing it all down in a journal. Keep your journal every day and write when you are feeling this way. Try to always end on a happy note and the things that you are grateful for.

Answer 6

I am sorry to hear you news.

Just take it easy one day at a time.
remember things will feel better although it does not feel like it right now
Give yourself time to grieve
you will come through this in time, and meet up with him again one day

Answer 7

wow! this is deep. you have to find some peace within yourself sweetheart. let the memory of your father forever remain in your heart. i know how u feel. i lost my father almost 12 yrs. ago and it still hurts. prayer is golden, baby. use it and God bless you!

Answer 8

Sorry he died. He sounded like a very poetic and profound man. You sound poetic too. Maybe you should try to be a writer.

Answer 9

Try to keep yourself grounded. Many people become self-destructive when theyre grieving and do things they wouldn't ordinarily do. Thats my only advice. Try to relax and just feel it out.

Answer 10

I like that song.

Answer 11

I like to cut my wrists and black my eyes.