I started having wet dreams at 16. I had them about once every 3 months back them. When I was 18, I was having them about once a month. I'm now 19 and I'm having them once every two weeks or so now (I even had two in one night, once). I want to get them to stop for the following reasons:
1. They leave a mess and I wake up glued to my sheets.
2. Ejaculation is painful for me (all my parts get really sore while I'm releasing my life force).
I do not masturbate and am sexually inactive. One person once told me that the reason I experience soreness is that my parts don't get used much (since wet dreams are all they get used for). He told me that if I started masturbating a reasonable amount, my parts would get more of a workout, they would no longer get sore and I would feel only pleasure during releases. He also said masturbating would help stop the wet dreams. Should I start masturbating frequently to stop having wet dreams? Or is there a better way to stop?
2007-02-20 11:41:12 · 6 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Having sex in some form is 100% the only way to prevent the wet dreams (no, that's not true, you could consent to being castrated, but I don't recommend that). The accumulation of semen builds up pressure and the sensation causes your brain to manufacture a sex dream in which you have an orgasm and ejaculate. Just masturbating once in a while will keep the pressure from building up. You may have trouble getting started. Better to have someone else do it for you, but just keep at it, eventually the pressure while you're doing it should carry you to the point where you can't stop until you ejaculate.
I'm not sure about your being sore just because you don't masturbate. Every two weeks is normal for teens who don't release any other way, and ejaculating shouldn't make you sore at all. You might have a restriction somewhere. It wouldn't hurt to discuss your soreness with a urologist. I don't think that's normal under any circumstances.
2007-02-20 12:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is correct. A nocturnal emission is the correct term for a wet dream !. An ejaculation done with masturbation is to be preferred since you control where and when and have tissues ready for a quick clean up ! Also nobody sees the stains on your bed sheets !. Enjoy your youth because I can vouch for the fact that it does not last forever ! . Cheers Pete
2007-02-20 20:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Realist 2006 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your friend had all the correct answers.
2007-02-21 01:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by dragonsz7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, u got too much harmones
2007-02-20 20:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Gibby! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop dreaming about naked girls.
2007-02-20 21:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
have sex
2007-02-20 21:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by JS 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋