Sex life in the first trimester....haha no such thing... but does it get better in the second? Please tell me it does..
2007-02-20 11:38:08 · 12 answers · asked by jorge n 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The second trimester is like the eye of the storm, and then things get uncomfortable again in the third. Though not all women are the same, Id say, it probably will pick up for you.
With my first I wanted sex ALL the time and I mean ALL the time in every which way position. But, with my second, the idea repulsed me. With my third I wanted it fairly often. It depends on your girl. How does she feel about the weight? Can she still feel sexy? Or is she warped in her thoughts of fatness? Dont lie and tell her she's still hot but let her know she looks beautiful and she still turns you on. Tell her she's the sexiest mama. If she's the sensitive type, dont joke about her weight gain or eating habits (if she's sensitive). Maybe buy her a cute nighty, something satiny. Thatll reassure her you still think she's great, hon, this will make her feel like she is desireable to you and give you more of what you want. Good luck.
2007-02-20 11:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman some never feel up to it it doesnt mean it wont happen its hormones and feelings of being to big or even being scared of hurting the baby,but often in the second trimester woman feel a big uplift in libido and then its good for the both of you but by the third trimester it goes away again you just need to be paitent with her and understanding and if your frustrated take a shower and a water proof magazine.
2007-02-20 11:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, i'm going through this one right now.
The topic of "Sex" during her first trimester was almost a deal breaker. You know what, scratch that, it seems like almost everything was a deal breaker, lol.
But definitively, yes, her desire and impulse to have sex will return in the second trimester, almost like a light switch... now i'm on a down-swing and I have lagging and lagging desire and she's starting to connect that to her changing body appearance and but not nearly to the same "levels" of during her first.
If you have a sexually open and expressive relationship with your wife, rather than trying to get her to commit to the exhausting task of sex, see if she wouldn't be interested in some mutual masterbation or other "fun" yet not "exhausting" activities.
I also think that if you're very receptive to how exhausted she is, it would help - although don't quote me on this one, because everyone will tell you that *nothing* helps during the first trimester. Especially if it's her first one...
2007-02-21 07:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by arjo_reich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All pregnancies are different, but it definitely came back for us. Yes, the first trimester can be very stressful and when you are so sick you usually aren't in the mood at all. The second trimester was so much easier. I didn't feel sick anymore and had so much more energy. Chances are things will get much better for you. :)
2007-02-20 11:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It did for me and all the websites say that usually yes it does but sorry to tell you sometimes it goes away again in the 3rd trimester.
2007-02-20 11:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll probably start feeling better in her second trimester. But in her third she's probably going to start feeling big and uncomfortable, just try to be patient.
2007-02-20 11:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by chelebeee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest for some women yes and because of all those hormones it can come back big time my husband says for you to start taking those vitamins and cardio now so you will be ready and for me it was that way till i had our girls and it was a little tiring for him as i wanted all the time so good luck but also for some women no it does not come back but for most women it does so just hang in there!
2007-02-20 11:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hopefully, is she sick?? that is usually the reason it goes away in the first. I was fine at around 5 months ( but I was sick till 5 months that is why ours sucked till then)Some women are fine before and some do not get back to normal till much later. I wish you luck ...lol
2007-02-20 11:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by mommy of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that totally depends on the person.
We hardly had sex at all when I was pregnant. It felt uncomfortable and I just didn't feel like it at all. I just didn't feel that sexy being huge and pregnant.
But, everyone is different.
2007-02-20 11:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with my first daughter there was no sex with my second child i was all over my husband i was like a bee and he was the beehive .. hehe ... i wont say it would for u but it might good luck
2007-02-20 11:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋