Im really confused about now. I have this girl who me and her basically together and she ok. She seems to be really feeling this guy alot. Shes known him for a long time and she loves him. She tells me she loves me to but I dont understand. Its like im basically sharing her and thats not right. Its bascially like im not the only one in her life. (Let me remind you she also has a boyfriend). The one the other hand I know this other girl who (I can tell) is really feelin me. She likes me and im starting to like her back. She is what I want in a girl. She just broke it off with her girl because her girl was having sex with a guy and lied to her about it. I really wanna be with her cause I feel me and her could connect on a better level and will be better for eachother. (Let me remind you, this girl also has a boyfriend). I know this girl wants to be with me and I wanna be with her...but I have a girl im basically with. What should I do? I like the other girl more then the one Im talking 2
2007-02-20 11:34:24 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Gurl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ah! its too complicated. wait till they DONT have a boyfriend. then go with the one you really like
2007-02-20 14:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by dark_silence_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me, but it sounds like you are fairly young. Why does that matter? Because it means you probably don't need or want to find the person you will spend the rest of your life with just yet. So I say just do what makes you happy. It sounds like you like the second girl better than the one you are with. So be honest with the girl you are with, break it off and pursue the one you really like.
2007-02-20 19:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jack R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy, but let me give you some advice, don't date a girl who has a boyfriend. It is cheating and it is wrong. Also, it will never make you truely happy knowing she is with someone else.
2007-02-20 19:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Aryca D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! That's WAY too much drama!! if I were you,I would leave them all alone and wait for someone who is all about you. What if you and this new girl get together and she still has feelings for her ex boyf?? Just wait for someone else without all the drama.
2007-02-20 21:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are two way. You need to find someone who wants to be with you too.
2007-02-20 19:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quote to live by:
"never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love"
kind of messed up...do what your heart tells you to do
2007-02-20 20:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by modelgyal91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with who you think will bring you the most happiness or pleasure.
2007-02-21 18:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by coolio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out
2007-02-21 00:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋