im going to have sex for the first time i no he nos howto have sex buti really dont know what to do HHHEEELLLPPP!!!
2007-02-20 11:19:21 · 17 answers · asked by megan m 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you don't know what to do, you're not old enough or ready to do it.
If you must, use protection.
2007-02-20 11:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and take it slow. FIRST- make sure that this is really what you want and who you want. Don't end up regretting anything. If you have been to a sex ed class, you should know where everything goes and all. Its basically just kissing, touching, caressing, etc. Pretty much, no matter what you do your first time is not going to be that great! It can hurt sometimes and you are nervous as hell. Take a shower, wear perfume, or whatever it takes to make sure you feel comfortable with yourself. You sound so young, make sure "he" knows to stop if you say so. And again, BE SURE THIS IS THE RIGHT TIME!! Its an experience you do not want to regret the rest of your life, and you will if its not right.
2007-02-20 19:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if you are 15 or younger i would highly recommend waiting a couple years because having sex can have many emotional and physical consequences. but if you are older than that or are going to do it anyway here's my advice. i am still a virgin but from what i've heard it's very important that you are very comfortable with your partner so you can be as relaxed as possible. take a few deep breaths and do not be nervous, as that will make your muscles tense up and it will not be very comfortable. if you are too nervous, don't do it. and remember the first time usually isn't very good, so don't feel ashamed if it isn't the greatest sex ever. finally, be sure to use protection! he needs to wear a condom and you should be on birth control. if he won't wear a condom, don't do it with him because he obviously isn't worried about you. good luck!
2007-02-20 19:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you ready to have sex? If you have any doubts at all, you should wait. If you think you are ready, ask him to take it slow. Make sure he knows it is your first time. That's what I did. He went very slow with me, plenty of foreplay, and asked me if I was ready before he actually penetrated me. It made it a much more enjoyable experience that way. I still think of that night fondly.
2007-02-20 19:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur Mom, U sound too young anyways... LOOK IT UP! btw marriage out of wedlcok can ruin a life, but good luck, hope u dont get any stds or r get pregant, unless u r married and u want a baby, be sure to be safe (use a condom)!
2007-02-20 19:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Project Runway Lover 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't know the mechanics of it yet you might want to avoid it for the time being. Perhaps focusing on correcting your spelling and grammar would be a better use of your time?
2007-02-20 19:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sheeny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this might sound really rude, but honestly u sound like ur 12. u dont have to this...and the guy prolly isnt even worth it..wait till ur ready....Whatever happened to the concept of abstience...? wait till the right guy...dont grow up to fast...
2007-02-20 19:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by R O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex before your married! wait for the right guy.
2007-02-20 19:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and get married!!!!! Why are you going to give this guy your body and heart with no commitement??? You are going to risk having a child with no intact loving home??? Why do women sell themselves so short???? Why are you doing this???? Did he ask you to marry him??? NO...he wants an EASY girl!!!! Are you stupid????
2007-02-20 19:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by youizbaby 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Megan dear, ask your mom or your Grandma, well maybe better not Grandma, she might have a heart attack. You must be pretty young, your spelling is atrocious, perhaps it would be better to concentrate on school work.
2007-02-20 19:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋