To all pregnant women:?

Question

What were the worse thing that you said to your partner? and how did he respond to that? I'm just worried about what is she going to say to me after she is pregnant, since we are trying to make a baby. I love her so much. I heard so much bad things about pregnant women, like they kick their own husbands out, and other stuff. Any advice on how to stay through the 9 months?

Answer 1

I don't think I said anything particularly nasty to my husband during either pregnancy. I do remember using the phrase "You did this to me" quite often. I also remember one particularly cranky day when I said "I'm growing a person here, what did YOU do today?"

Answer 2

Hi, hope it doesn't go that bad for you. :) Just kidding, it won't be bad. She won't say anything crazy or mean. She may get very emotional over the smallest things though. Watching the 11 pm news might send her into tears. I know it does me. I think for myself being pregnant is so wonderful and emotional. You will make it through the whole 9 months. I guess if she's already been kind of rough on you before, then it might be a different story. But the first trimester is the hardest. And labor usually causes women to be a little mean. Just try to hold your tongue even when you know she's wrong. That's horrible, I know, but it will save you in the long run. Good luck!

Answer 3

Just keep letting her know that you love her. Give her space if she asks for it and hold her when she needs it. You won't always know when that is (she won't either). Emotions change constantly. Offer to help her with everything. She may not want it but it will let her know that you will be there for her no matter what. Be very understanding no matter what mood she is in. A lot of the time a pregnant woman can't help how she feels.

I yelled at my husband really bad one time while I was pregnant. I didn't want to but couldn't stop myself. As soon as I was done I started crying because I had been so mean and he didn't deserve that. He was so good and totally understood. He even laugh a little about it. He said it was kind of funny to watch but he felt so bad for me too.

Well good luck!

Answer 4

I have NEVER kicked my hubby out. I think the worst thing I have said to him (through all 4 pregnancies) was recently when he was working 70 hours a week and was only home to sleep. I told him he was a great sperm donor. I feel bad now.. but I think it made him realize that not only did I need him emotionally, I need him physically to be here. To help me and make me feel wanted and special. He took 3 days off and I am happy as a clam now. Just remember... for pregnant women.. it is emotions. Hormones are horrible things. Good luck

Answer 5

I've never kicked hubby out, but sometimes felt like it. He just has a knack for saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. Then again he's from a different country and culture and things are a lot different. He just really doesn't know all the social norms, that beings said...he's getting a lesson!

The worst thing I've said was when I compared him to Scott Peterson. I forget what we were arguing about, I'm pretty sure he was teasing me about the sperm viles getting mixed up at the fertility clinic...see what I mean about watching what you say...

Answer 6

I would say that us pregnant women are hormonal but I have never wanted to throw my husband out!!! I cant even think of of any bad things that I said to him with any of my pregnancies. Only advise I can give you if your girl does become pregnant is to be supportive and try to be understanding. As a woman our bodied go through so many changes once we are pregnant and it is something a man cannot fully understand. But I think if your girl wants to throw you out or whatnot just cuz she is preggers then there is some underlying issue that has nothing to do with her hormonal swings. My opinion only though.....

Answer 7

I don't think we are that bad. My husband came home one day in not such a great mood, I stay home. He told me that I do not know what its like to have a rough day. Well with this pregnancy I vomit about 7 times a day, never sleep and always have heart burn. The worst thing i have said is "if you think carrying another person inside of you, being sick all the time, seeing your body change and never sleeping is easy then lets trade places because I feel like body is constantly working." If you are respectful of her feelings and are there for her you should be fine. Best wishes!

Answer 8

If you are serious about it, then be understanding for her... Mood swings are always going to be there during the pregnancy, so she might take what you say the wrong way... Women are emotional rollercoasters during pregnancies, so be sensitive and loving throughout the 9 months... Don't get upset with what she might say, its just hormones....

Make her feel cherished and cared for and she should be a happy expectant mother!

Answer 9

I'm 6 weeks from my due date and I just want to fill you in on what I want my husband to do. I don't expect hi to go to my appointments, but he can ateast ask me how they went. I wish he would help me put my shoes on and not complain when I ask for help. I wish he would take over the household chores that I really don't need to be doing or atleast stop nagging me cause the house is trashed. I wish he would rub lotion on my tummy sometimes, tell me how sexy i look, play with my hair.....Just be a loving husband and I'm sure you'll be fine. Above all, be supportive!!!!

Answer 10

My husband is in the military and currently deployed and he will be until about month 5. So far that seems to be working well for us. Haha. but really, I haven't done anything that crazy (yet) maybe you will be one of the lucky ones.