I have an awesome persnality. I'm very outgoing and social and super friendly. But I don't think women find me attractive at all. I'm 5'3, and I'm very curvy(hourglass figure) and I have curly hair and brown skin. Only men seem to apporach me and I'm bi. I like the attention but I want girls to notice me. Am I ugly?
2007-02-20 10:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm 16 how do I attract girls
2007-02-20 10:58:54 · update #1
Dear Teddy Bear,
I think u are very beautiful and very sweet even thou ive never met you. (!!!)
Seriosuly, u are. Aha..i am 100% straight and I happen to have a a good man, fantastic Tanzanian boyfriend. Im saying it becoz i think Black is beautiful and u shud feel that way too.
Yes, like others have said: try goin to some gay club and Im pretty sure u will attract other girls. Good luck !
ps: dont fool urself believin in those stereotypes created by media that real beauty is blonde with blue eyes. no way!
2007-02-21 01:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by senorita spanish rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you sound lovely to me, at least (I'm bi, too).
Looks-wise, for me, there are so many different looks that are attractive. Basically, I can't really say what parts I like on a person, because it's really the sum of the whole that gets me, you know? But a big, genuine smile is always a winner!
In terms of personality, I like intelligence, open-mindedness, wit, humor, compassion, and a willingness to talk and debate about everything and anything.
Don't worry, I think you're fine. Where have you been looking for the ladies? Maybe you might find better luck in a place where the women know you're available, like a lesbian nightclub or GLBT group or somewhere similar?
2007-02-20 10:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have pretty much the same problem as you and almost the same personality too believe it or not. But I have been out with a few people including girls. From the sounds of it you seem lovely inside and out you just don't seem to be hitting the right crowed of people. Try going to a gay area and you'll see people you will like and if your lucky they might like you back just when you meet them make sure to be your self. Good luck with finding some one!
2007-02-20 11:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyer/Nicer girls for me. Like she will talk to me, but shyer girls tend to be ALOT cuter then outgoing, preps and all these other fakes. Laid back, nah because they could really care less, so if I had a laidback girlfriend, i'd always be in the spot of thinking "Does she REALLY care?" or something like that. Just yeah, nicer, shyer, DO have a backbone, but AREN'T thinking they are the world bada$$. That's just me.
2016-05-24 00:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by Vernieke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for confidence on Yahoo sweet heart. Everything you need is with in you. Girls and guys are more alike that we all like to think. If guys dig you then for sure there are some women that dig you. Don't Trip just keep doing what you do.
2007-02-20 10:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very feminine girly-girl. I love dark haired, voluptuous women physically. I do like girly girls too, but I've come to find some butch women very appealing too.
I like bubbly, outgoing, full-of-life personalities.
2007-02-20 11:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fo real, any gurl gotta be her right mind to passin you up. but fo real i dig a chick's personality it jus makes twice as beautiful on the outside as in the inside, don't consider yaself ugly ya just ain't found a special someone your personality is great then i know you can't be ugly sound beautiful
2007-02-21 05:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by BOOTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i agree go to a bar!!!!!
u sound like a really nice girl and heck i bet any girl would date u if u give it a shot so go and wear something attractive like very short dress and give it a try!if no one notice ,go on stage and start to dance very sexy!
2007-02-20 11:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ugly. Girls can just sometimes be slow to hit on another girl, because they want to be hit on first!
2007-02-20 15:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't ugly at all. i agree with the others. go to a lesbian bar or something. you seem very nice. just WORK IT GIRL!
2007-02-20 11:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋