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So I'm a high school freshmen. Today in hon. Earth science we had to identify minerals and what not and I ofcourse took a good role of trying to lead the group. I love science, I love technology. But this guy called me a female dog name u know the one I'm sure. I don't want to be underdog and won't stand to be put aside. I can't change who I am, I'm a leader I know that but guys just hate me when i take the lead. Why do I feel so horrible..?

2007-02-20 10:24:14 · 11 answers · asked by lauren s 3 in Social Science Psychology

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I'd say he's in some way threatened by you, as you may demonstrate that you know more than him in class.

Sure, it's an immature way to respond. Pointing that out to him would make it worse, I imagine.

You say you won't change how you are, and I bet he won't change how he is.

Does the teacher require you all to take turns leading the group? Or is it possible that (just asking) you might be showing off?

You may actually know more than everyone else in your class, including the teacher. However, nobody likes a show-off.

You don't have to stop being smart. You don't have to sacrifice your learning. When you ask questions, is it because you are curious, or are you trying to see if the teacher really knows?

Anyway, try to see it from this guy's perspective. Of course, there is no excuse for calling someone what he called you. But there may be a reason. The reason doesn't make it right. He might actually feel like you are picking on him!

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2016-10-16 03:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

He is lower than snake spit. Don't let him get you down. Women have taken their rightful place in the world by speaking up. That's why we have female senators, a female Sec. of State, and we could soon have a female Pres.

You feel bad because it hurts to be treated bad when you know you're doing a good job. He can't fight fair because he lacks even a decent vocabulary. Just stare him down. And be proud of who you are.

2007-02-20 10:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0 0

Maybe, just maybe he's threatened by your knowledge and feels your a little pompous. That's his problem and your teacher's problem.. the teacher should have resolved that issue in a heart beat! What goes on in school these days?? When did name calling etc. become the norm?

2007-02-20 10:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0 0

That was something I really struggled with after leaving my all-girl's high school. The answer is, be calm, hold your head high, and take his insult as a compliment - he didn't like you because you're a smart woman who does what she wants.

2007-02-20 10:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by Rosasharn 3 · 0 0

Don't let the name bother you. The person who called you that can't help it if he is ignorant. He is just jealous of you. Your teacher should have done something about the name calling.

2007-02-20 10:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0 0

I agree with the answerer above me! Don't let any name calling prevent you from being and doing your very best. Keep being a leader. :)

2007-02-20 10:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Because that's how they want you to feel. They are jealous because you have found yourself and they are still struggling. Don't feel bad and don't feel superior. Just apply yourself and do your best and don't ever feel bad about being you at your best.

2007-02-20 10:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Extra Blue Note 5 · 0 0

Dear you need to step it up a little. Next time he says that, smile and say "I know". Don't let it bother you, I wouldn't. Takes practice to be good!

2007-02-20 10:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by flower 6 · 1 0

Guys can be so dumb sometimes. Don't let it get to you. Countinue to be the person you are and don't let this idiot who i feel is just threatened by you get to you.

2007-02-20 10:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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