This is what he just told me a few min. ago!
"..I hope your guys deceit and lies were worth it. Not only betrayed a friend, but lost a rich and powerfull friend in the process. I hope you guys are happy with the choices you made for yourself. I've know you pris since dec 04. and deric since 7th grade, and this is what I deserve. back stabbed!!!!!!!! gotta love supposed "friends"... The thing is that I never had a date with this guy and I met one of his friends. I fell in love with him and now we're dating. He found out and he's mad because we did not tell him. I don't think we're doing something wrong... or maybe we did?? HELP!
2007-02-20 10:14:39 · 19 answers · asked by No doubt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You'll both need to get together with him and explain to him in person that you weren't dating him ever, you guys were never a thing...so now you and Deric and dating.
Just explain what the deal is, this guy is making a whole scenario up in his mind which isn't true and he's hurting himself with assumption, his frienship with Deric and you in the process.
So, as a friend you need to tell him he's wrong and do it with Deric so he can see the both of you together and if there are any questions or concerns it can all be dealt with at one time and in one day...no emailing or phone calls...or nasty letters.
2007-02-20 10:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hide anything, then there is always a half-truth or a non-truth behind it. Did you hide it from him because you were afraid he would act like this? This is HIS issue. HE needs to deal with it. True, he probably feels left out and rejected. Typical response. The ones that don't get their way usual are the manipluators of guilt.
Dust it off. However, if you value this person, let him know you are sorry he feels this way and he should not take it personally, but remind him that his reaction and comments are no reflection on you. Usually if you just acknowledge someones feelings, it helps them better to deal with them. That simple.
2007-02-20 10:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't think that you were doing something wrong, then why didn't you tell him, especially since you've known each other for awhile? The only reason I can think of that makes any sense is that you thought you were doing something wrong, or were afraid that it might be seen as wrong.
So, yes, I think you did at least a little backstabbing. Maybe even a lot.
2007-02-20 10:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be so sensitive, well if he has been there for you or if you trust him, you really should've told him that you were going out with his friend...but by the way you put it when you said that he said " not only betrayed a friend, but lost a RICH and POWERFUL friend in the process" I really do believe he's jealoous...I hope I helped. Remember friends come and go but TRUE friends last forever.
2007-02-20 10:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by YYYpunk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is hard to say, based on the little information we know of you and your relationship with this friend. How long were you dating the "friend" before you told the friend about it? There has to be a reason why he is so upset about you dating him and i am certain you know why as you know him better than me. Perhaps he liked you as more than a friend or there is something else to this. Why wouldn't you share with him that you liked his friend before you went out with him??? Seems like he would be the first person you told.
2007-02-20 10:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by LM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 10:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if he was rich and powerful it was YOUR own selfish choice NOT to go out with him! Get him for the money sista! Take it and run! Be an Anna Nicole Smith 2!
2007-02-20 10:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you didnt do anything wrong. he probably feels a little betrayed because he was left out of the loop but hes overexaggerating.
2007-02-20 10:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by levi52291 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just pissed and jealous, he will get over it. He is just blowing everything way out of proportion, he will get over it sooner or later. u two have fun and enjoy each other and forget this immature sicko. u guys did nothing wrong
2007-02-20 10:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds a little paranoid to me...you did nothing wrong unless you were trying hide it from him.
2007-02-20 10:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋