Me and my boyfriend seem to have different views on what life should be about. I believe that it should be about having that one great guy, that you marry, live with , and have your kids with. but sometimes i feel that he believes that life should be about having many before you settle down. What do you think?
2007-02-20 09:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by link it together 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I tend to agree with you more than your guy, but then again, I think men and women are somewhat divided on this; men tend to feel that they need to, or at least think that they're supposed to, 'sow their wild oats' before settling down, women are supposed to just want to settle.
Whatever makes a person happy, eh? Just so long as it doesn't cause problems between you . . . when it does, that's when you need to sit down and talk.
2007-02-20 10:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women usually differ quite a but on this! Men feel they need to 'sow their oats" and women believe in quality, not quantity. This isn't the case ALL the time, but I think it is more often than not!
Personally, I would rather be with a guy that had worked all those issues out, as opposed to pressuring a man into settling down with me and ending up being cheated on time and again later on!
2007-02-20 18:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Monica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that if you are going to settle down together, then you seriously need to sit and talk about this and everything that bothers you in the relationship. remember to communicate that is very important in a relationship
2007-02-20 20:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with farbien 3,it is up to you and he to agree on what works for you two.men like to try various people and thats normal.If he really loves you he will come back to you and only you when its time
2007-02-20 18:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter what we think. It only matters what the two of you think.
2007-02-20 17:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right, and he is wrong.
2007-02-20 18:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋