I have listened to this friend for months on end about her problems to the point of feeling emotionally drained. And all of a sudden she totally backstabbed me, for no reason. I have tried to talk to her but she refuses to take my calls. I feel so hurt by her behavior as I honestly did nothing wrong. In some ways I wanted out of this friendship but not this way. Now I am walking around angry and want this resolved, not to be friends again but to end the gossip she is saying about me.
2007-02-20 09:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by thewife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She has left her pain and anger with you and walked away.In other words she has offloaded her problems onto you. It is a common problem when friends help to that degree, I doubt she is angry at you personally, she is angry with life. You need to close the door on the knowledge she has left with you .This is an uncomfortable situation for you, do not involve yourself with her again.Meanwhile carry on with your life ,she is a manipulative person and has a destructive nature you are better off without her friendship.You could approach her and tell her her to stop talking about you, behind your back.Walking away puts you back in control of the situation because you have made your stand.
2007-02-20 10:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can imagine how you feel...but the bad thing about it is you can't stop someone from gossiping about you....if their going to talk about you their going to talk about you no matter what....so what do you do? you learn to live with it...my mom always told me to feed no good ppl with a long handle spoon...and i did but the only way to resolve this is to move on and treat her as if she don't exist....b/c she's already treating you as if your invisible so give her a taste of her own medicine...but you must be the bigger person and she will feel so small b/c you are not feeding into her crap...why belittle yourself? don't argue with her and don't look for an explanation from her..why? b/c the damage is already done she's already proved to you that she's not a real friend...so there is no point in trying to resolve anything...what would get to her most is you moving on to bigger and better things.
2007-02-20 10:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Backstab decrease back. they say 2 wrongs do no longer make a suitable, yet in math, unfavorable + unfavorable = beneficial. Math = good judgment, and consequently backstabbing decrease back is the logical element to do.
2016-09-29 09:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by gloyd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend. Make sure you can trust him/her. Tell him/her about this, to get it off you. As for the backstabbing-The "friend" has been a jerk all along. She must have hid her true nature from you somehow. Stop thinking about it, and find a new friend. This is hard, but you have to try.
2007-02-20 09:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Eden 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she talks about you behind your back then that probably means she is jealous of you in some way. That's how I look at if someone is talking about me. She is jealous of you because you are better than her and she knows that. Ignore it and move on.
2007-02-20 10:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by shiver 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ouCXH WITH A KNIFE OR WHATTTTTTTTTT?
2007-02-20 11:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋