What should one do if he likes to go "down there" but his girlfriend doesn't? I don't want to be the only giver here...
2007-02-20 09:51:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
give and ye shall receive brother, it make take some time for her to reciprocate but it should happen. good luck
2007-02-20 09:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by spindizz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't rush it, especially if you respect her.
Is that the most important part of your relationship for her to perform on you or for the 2 of you to share intimacy? Eventually she will be happy to return the pleasure you are giving her. Or, she will feel guilty because it is feeling so good to her and she has not been able to give you a gift that is deserving of the skills you have displayed.
Now, if you are just down there and not pleasing her. You have to step up to the plate read some books to help you.
Also, you did not state why she won't perform fellatio.
good luck.
2007-02-20 18:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you give the more you get. Make her extremely happy (and satisfied) that you are in her life and she'll likely do the same for you. And try presenting the "option" to her just as she's scored a goal.
2007-02-20 18:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girlfriend.
2007-02-20 17:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her like she is or find someone who will. Girls are just sooo self concious!
2007-02-20 18:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
donot rush hings give her time and put aside your animal instinct
2007-02-21 06:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the chance "to light her candle" if you're doing it right . .
2007-02-20 17:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jim W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not be the only one. If you love your girlfriend, your job is to please HER, not yearn for yourself to be pleased.
Chow!!
2007-02-20 19:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely up to her. Unlike men, not all girls are keen on oral sex.
I'm sure you can please her in other ways.
2007-02-20 17:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait until she is ready
2007-02-20 17:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋