2007-02-20 08:43:52 · 19 answers · asked by hadriannina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everyone is different - so your mind may be looking towards another path rather than kids at this time of your life. It could also depend on your age.. if you are still young you have plenty of years ahead of you and may find in a few years down the track that you change your mind. I do always warn people to never put having kids out of your mind all together - As in years to come you may want them so it is good to keep your options open. Do keep in mind that this is good for your now, but ask your self if when you are old and grey, will you be happy not having any family??? Just a thought.
2007-02-20 08:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! In fact, I think that is a very honorable choice (I choosing not to have children myself). There are WAY TOO MANY people in the world as it is not to mention most parents (these days) don't know how to be parents and instead, try to be friends with their kids. A recipie for disaster, no way around it. Also, there are millions of children out there who are suffering, starving, and living in poverty and they don't have a soul in the world to save them. If you change your mind and decide you do want kids, why not adopt a child that really needs a loving home and a more secure, nuturing environment?
2007-02-20 17:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by spyhopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No nothing is wrong with you, but the main reason most couples get married is to start a family. Some people are unlucky and are unable to have children. If you are blessed, and If you are ready, you should think about it...
2007-02-20 16:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by ladymember 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you, it is just a choice that you have made. Do not let society or friends or family make you feel that something is wrong with you because you made a decision that maybe they would not have made.
2007-02-20 16:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you own self this: Is there something wrong with you making a conscious decision to do what you feel is best for you for you life at this time?
If this is what is best for you and this is what you choose.....then you tell me...is something wrong with you?
2007-02-20 16:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, there's nothing wrong with you, having children is not for everyone. But, you may change your mind someday. Just enjoy life until then.... and do all the things you can't do when you have children...
2007-02-20 16:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the reason you don't want to have kids. But many people choose not to have kids. ITs normal. Just as long that its for a ood reason.
2007-02-20 16:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Soccer Junkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your spelling and grammar are lacking. Other then that no you may just feel the husband may not be ready to help you care for a child, or you may not be ready.
2007-02-20 16:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to have kids now, or ever? really either way there is nothing wrong with you, you just don't have that need and if you spouse is ok with it who care, don't worry.
2007-02-20 17:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by cristi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope! not everyone is meant to have kids. I have an aunt who never had kids and she and my uncle travel all over the world with all the extra money. she couldn't be happier.
2007-02-20 16:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋