Sounds to me like she isn't ready for a serious relationship.
And, is playing games, choosing among 3 men, and not choosing, etc.
I love her and want to wait awhile, last year I think I promised her a year of attention or something, maybe the year is almost up.
2007-02-20 08:41:09 · 8 answers · asked by k eric b 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
When someone is playing games (and the field) the way she is, then she isn't interested in a real, monogomous relationship.
Advice is: Move on, don't play into her game.
As long as you hold on (or at least behave like you want to hold on), she will continue to take you for granted. By moving on, one of two things will happen. 1) She will realize what she's lost and reevaluate her behavior. Maybe she'll come looking for you, maybe not. 2) She will say, "C'est la vie" (That's life.) and continue on playing with whatever guys are willing to play her game. Either way, you've gotten out of the purgatory between the wish for having honest love returned to you and the jealousy of seeing her go out with other people.
Good luck.
2007-02-20 09:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Shaman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check this question to Yahoo Answers Relationships
2007-02-20 16:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sophist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, i hate to break it to you, but if she really loved you she would have chosen you long ago. and maybe if you pull out, she will reallize that you're the one shes been waiting for and that she just let you walk away.
Good Luck
2007-02-20 16:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"a year of attention or something" so you're not sure? make sure you love her for the right reasons. and if you loving her is going to hurt someone then it's time to say goodbye.
2007-02-20 16:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, not Yahoo answers.
2007-02-20 17:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by sirtitan45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is playing a TRIPPLE-GAME, it is better to be on the safe side and tell her openly to GET LOST"
2007-02-20 17:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by cabridog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you are tired of waiting and tell her to make up her mind. Then go from there.
2007-02-20 16:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kalinakona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love freedom, or slavery? Prove it.
2007-02-20 16:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Real Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋