Teens. Just stop having sex ok? Are you ready for a baby? Can you take care of one? Can you even take care of yourself? Do you really think your parents are going to babysit for you everytime you need them too? Do you know what the STDs/STIs are? Are you ready for whatever life long commitment comes your way because you had sex? Girls, if ppl find out and start calling U a slut are U ready for that? Guys, are you really to be a father?
If you answered no to any of these questions (or yes to the one about the parents being babysitters) then you're too young to be having sex. Find another way to have fun. Believe it or not...there is something to do no matter how boring your town is.
2007-02-20 08:40:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Whether you get an STD/STI or not doesn't matter when you withdraw!
BTW: The girl doesn't have to be penetrated to get pregnant. "...the sperm comes in contact withthe oustide of the vagina and swims in causing a pregnancy"
http://www.hotqa.com/teen-preteen/3134-1-dmt123.html
2007-02-21 04:02:53 · update #1
p.s: "So Beat It?" Ok Micheal Jackson. (lol)
But here's an add-on to the original post...
Do you expect someone with and STD/STI to always tell you? If you answered no to this question or any of the others asked (besides the babysitting one) then you're too young.
Parents, don't expect the school to cover everything in sex ed. For all U know your kid could be skipping sex ed or not paying attention...or they could have a really bad teacher. Have "the talk" please. (and don't leave anything out!)
2007-02-21 04:08:01 · update #2
Ashley, I'm not saying you're a bad mother. I'm glad things worked out for you. IBut this is aimed more towards kids who are 12-17 (possibly 18) who are out having sex but are uninformed. If you are informed then this post is not talking to you. I'm talking about the girls who go out having sex and then come on here or other sites scared that they are pregnant or have a STD. It's apparent they didn't think about it before hand. There are girls who get pregnant then their parents force them to have an abortion or disown them. There diseases out there that can cause a person to become sterile and these kids don't know.
I'm glad you're responsible enough and your boyfriend is responsible enough for a baby and that you have such and awsome mom, but not every situation will turn out like yours and that's what I think some kids are missing.
2007-02-21 04:14:57 · update #3
In my prior post change the word "girl(s)" to "teen(s)"
Sorry. I didn't mean to make the focus on females. This is for both males and females
2007-02-21 14:58:32 · update #4
I agree, but unfortunately the people who really need to hear this won't.
2007-02-20 10:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by shivers_42 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im doing a great job rising my daughter, she is taken care of and she is well loved. My mother LOVES baby sitter for me and guess what its only on the weeks and if i need to go to the store or something so she doesnt mind at all I do know what STDS are i went to highschool. every girl gets called a slut a whore NO matter what they are. My boyfriend LOVES being a father and guess what we are still together after 3 years of being together. Oh and by the way im 19 and i dont think bad of someone esp if u dont even know them. People start saying stuff over this stupid world wide web about everybody and any body and its stupid.
2007-02-20 10:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by [[<3]] 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well you are not gonna stop nothing. people have sex and due to tv and society being more open they are having it at younger ages. all you can do is tell them to wait until they are ready and drill saftey into their heads, condoms pills, tests. and teach them that realationships are good not one night stands. who do you think they learn these things from ? teh older generations hello!!!
as that being said to the people who above me said i have unprotected sex and my mom loves babysitting my kids, you are retarded what the hell!!!! unprotected you willl g et aids or get some poor girl prego and i know that you wont be there either!!
and mommy your mom is taking responsibilty for your actions, you leraned nothing and a real disgrace to the young moms that work hard to raise their kids, they learned teh hard way.
2007-02-26 11:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 15 and most of my friends arent virgins, 2 of them are mothers and they are both a yr younger than me. i dont think they listen, they can only learn from their mistakes. now that they have babies, they cant go out anymore with us, which is a shame. those stupid teenagers who get pregnant are ruining their lives while their friends will get great jobs they will have crappy ones.
2007-02-21 06:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey uhhh guy above me. u wont be very happy when u do get sum1 pregnant. OR WHEN U GET AIDS. i may even laugh at u. because what ur doin is messin up ur life
2007-02-20 17:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by sambucca 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hun, i totatlly agree but people have a mind of their own sometimes
2007-02-26 11:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need more people like you. I think that you are right; I am getting sick of the "omg! I'm so like, preg!" it's really stupid and annoying. You tell 'em!
2007-02-27 11:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who are YOU to tell me not to have sex?
I'm 17 and have been having sex(most of the times unprotected) since I was 14. I havent got anyone pregnant yet!!!
Its all about self control you know.
While having sex, teens usually get so deeply involved in it and due to the excitement and all they forget to withdraw their C O C K at the right time(in unprotected sex).
SO BEAT IT!!!!
2007-02-20 16:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ÐiÇŦÅŦŐ®♥ 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Well they dont care they love spreading there legs
2007-02-20 10:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You go girl!! I'm with you on that one!!!
2007-02-27 13:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kala C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋