i reeeeeeally like this girl i dream about her every night and for the right reasons should i ask her out i am only 12. I am the new kid at school and everyone picks on me will that affect anything? Also we have totally sepearte classes how, where, and when should i do it. P.S she lives in my neighboorhood.
2007-02-20 08:02:48 · 15 answers · asked by Danielle S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well if she lives in your nieghborhood then do it on a saturday. Make sure you dont become friends with her. It sounds wierd. But i thought if i became friends w/ this girl she would want to go out w/ me. But when i asked her she said i was too much of a friend.
2007-02-20 09:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my these are questions I live for. Being the new kid at school should not affect any of your chances of going out with her.If being bullied is tearing you down and you think that you should not go for it then you know what don't because then your self-esteem is going to be low which is not attractive.I think first you should make sure she knows you because me being a girl I wouldn't go with someone I don't know.Try introducing yourself you know.Then once she knows you pretty well to step into a relationship then your good.
TIPS TO ASK HER OUT:
HOW - If your pretty shy do it by note or talk to her yourself.
WHERE - At school
WHEN SHOULD YOU DO IT - Between classes or possibly after school.(which would give her enough time to weigh her options, and think about it)
P.S - I wish you the best!
2007-02-20 17:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, don't go after her just yet. Give her space... so that means no constantly hanging over her shoulder. Make her laugh, sorta get to know her interests. Don't act nerdy and try not to embarass yourself. I'm 13 and I asked my boyfriend out... and look... we've been going out for 2 months. It may not seem like she likes you some days... and you may just give up all hope, but don't. No, just because you are the new kid that gets made fun of doesn't mean you can't have a girlfriend.
Just remember to keep cool. Maybe practice talking to her in front of the mirror. Girls get weirded out if you aren't smooth and if you're all trippy when you talk. Just sit down near her at lunch so she notices you're there. Get to know her... find out what things she likes... make her laugh definitely [[that's a sign]]. Then, when you think the time is right, and she knows who you are, ask her out... but be cool with it and don't look nervous. Remember... be cool, act natural, and be yourself. Don't worry about being the new kid.
Good luck to you
2007-02-20 16:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just because your the new kid at school doesn't mean that she won't like you. If she likes you she will answer yes and if she says no because your nw she is not worth it. You should ask her anytime when you see her if it is at school, on the phone or in your neighborhood. Maybe just go to her house and ask her.
2007-02-20 18:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out if you kinda know her, its more that likely she'll say yes if you were talking to her, but if she hardly knows you she might just think that you are the new kid that gets picked on and say no
2007-02-20 18:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Pirate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answers to your questions
A) you are not to young. my first bf was in 5th grade
B) the kids picking on you should not really affect anything unless like its really obvious and everyone hates you. or shes really popular and doesnt date new boys. (which i doubt is the case cause u seem really nice :)
C) how to ask her out: " (insert girls name here) i've been thinking lately and i really really like you...would you go out with me?"
D) where: do you guys hang out alot? if so whenever you see her. if not ask her to hangout one day and take her somewhere special. not a fanc resturant maybe just like the park somewhere sweet and calm. dont over do it.
E) when: whenever.
2007-02-20 16:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by niknikx3 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hang out with this girl in your neighborhood and be friends. Then, once you feel like she has feelings for you, start talking friendly and complement her a lot. She should soon start crushing on you (secretly), and will be hoping for you to ask her out.
2007-02-20 16:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by freedombah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make friends with her first
since you live near her that makes it easier. invite her over or something after school. but if shes reallly popular you probably shouldnt ask her out because she wont go out with you if everyone thinks you are a loser because it will ruin her reputation.
ps. im in love with the new kid at my school!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 20:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by hcogirl14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start as friends first. Get to know this girl. Sines she lives in your neighborhood, maybe you guys could hang out sometime. If after you get to know her, you still like her... ask her out.
2007-02-20 16:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya!! Go for it!! Dnt be her friend cos if u go out nd break up it will ruin ur friend-ship!! D worst dat can happen is she'll say no!! X
2007-02-20 16:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋