I posted a question on here a minute ago, you can check it out if you would like more detailed info on the problem. But I have another similar question. I love my boyfriend of one year deeply but I love him too much. I really do. I miss him when I'm not with him, when I go for a few hours without talking to him, I miss him. I still want to be with him, I don't want to be without him but I need to stop loving him SO much. I need to know how to be without him without missing him so much. I need to know how to stop wanting to be touched, kissed, held by him all the time....PLEASE HELP!!! I have talked to him about it and we have decided we just love differently but that doesn't mean we don't want to be together....we do. I think he wishes I would ease up to but I just don't know how. HELP. THANKS!!
2007-02-20 07:46:29 · 9 answers · asked by Doubtful 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Not all men show there emotions maybe he is one of those. You will have to live with it! It will help to think negative things about him. Usually that is not advise to give someone but in this case you want to stop! So find all the gross bad things, smells, habits & look at him rally close. Is he really all that? Disarray yourself! Detach yourself. It is only normal & healthy to want to be touched kissed and held. But if all you have experienced is someone going through the motions then you have no idea how good it feel to be with someone who wants to hold you as much as you want to hold them!!! Don't shortchange yourself. He is out there & you deserve to find him.!!!! Don't just be in love with the idea of love. It is so not the same thing!
2007-02-20 07:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I artwork in a hectic hospital and can say that the reason there is one in all those scarcity of nurses is that we are so over worked and under staffed each and every so often to a risky point that tending to each whim isn't in all threat conceivable. I agree that being worrying does not value a element and that if a nurse is aggressive then he/she is in the incorrect activity. yet. . i've got confidence there is not any comprehend for nurses anymore and that kin and sufferers might properly be stressful to an outrageous point. sufferers and kin can spend all day complaining approximately that they did no longer get their cup of tea a million/2 an hour in the past whilst there are minimum group working around like headless chickens attempting to offer drugs answer telephones, answer doorways, touch medical doctors, circulate sufferers, admit sufferers etc etc to no longer point out the mounds of place of work work which must be crammed in as a criminal requirement. Then to suitable it off if there's a scientific emergency the only group there is could tend to that and each little thing else gets left which motives a backlog. i do no longer think of that they've stopped worrying i in basic terms think of they are in basic terms uninterested of the consistent conflict every day, its extra basic to stroll far off from the activity.
2016-09-29 09:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by gizzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you start making time for yourself and your friends. For example, take time each week to do something on your own. Start slowly maybe movies or mall, or even go to family members house to spend time with them, start taking some type of classes to help improve your body or social skills. I went through the same thing and this has truly helped me..
2007-02-20 07:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by gone from here too 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love I think you need to see someone, your love is based on fear of abandonment. you are going to smother him to death and then you will lose him. Trust me, I was just like you and I ended up divorced. Its hard when you love someone not to be so needy but its not healthy and its very suffocating. You need to increase your self esteem and find enjoyment in other things (like dancing or a hobby etc). He is not going to leave you but if you love him too much he will definitely leave. Learn from my mistake.
2007-02-20 07:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Probably this is your first love. You are in love with love. There is one hellava difference. Once you learn to distinguish between the two you will calm down and grow in your confidence and love life.
2007-02-20 09:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by MaggieSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby
2007-02-20 07:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ace 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Carry a picure of him and everytime you miss him take it out and look at it.
2007-02-20 07:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by blcria 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont let him get nay for a while then hell come to you if not then you should meat other people
2007-02-20 07:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
easily, forget about them and move on
2007-02-20 07:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Bob B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋