who can tell me?

Question

well ... i just have no idea if i am GAY or not i wonder... i don't want to be a gay but when i am doing autoerotism i always think about making love with handsome boys ... i really don't want to be... i am only 15 who can tell me??

Answer 1

Sorry, pal, your fantasies say that you're gay. If you were younger, I'd say the jury was still out, but your sex drive is in high gear right now and it's telling you who you most want to be with.

Aside from the label, you are who you always have been. Why would you not want to be you? And wouldn't you rather be you than trying to be someone you're not? Believe me, it's a lot less stress. Once you get over denying who you are, it feels pretty good being able to admit to yourself that you're hot for cute guys! Even better when you find one who feels that way about you!

There are websites and groups for boys your age who are just discovering their sexual identities, none of which I know but which I'm sure others will be able to list for you.

I'm sure some people are going to jump in here with their religious views to try to make you feel bad and to conform to what THEY think you should be, but ignore them. Most of them don't even understand their own religion and are more interested in hurting than "saving". Shakespeare said "To thine own self be true", and that's the most important thing to remember.

Don't panic, you'll be fine, you aren't alone, and most of the stereotypes you've been taught about gays are false, which you know now that you know that you are one yourself and you're still the same good guy you've always been.

Answer 2

Josh - you may still be experimenting or searching for your sexual identity. I am not sure if you know what autoeroticsm is and if that is what you are truly doing, be careful. If you are doing risky things while masturbating, part of the thriss is being right on the edge. I have seen where that line got crossed and it resulted in bad things happening. Its one thing to orgasm but doing so at risk to yourself is dangerous. If you are turly gay, you will find that out soon enough and will learn to live with it and probably accept it later as well.

Answer 3

You're only 15!!!You don't know much of anything yet.You might be gay or you might be straight.There also the third alternative,you might be bisexual.Whatever you are, don't go knocking yourself out about it.Look back at the leader of the band INXS,he's DEAD because of autoerotism.Play safe and whack off to Playboy or Playgirl,whichever gets your rocks off.Don't try to grow up too soon,you'll miss the best part.

Answer 4

It really depends on where your feelings take you, i mean i didnt want to be gay and once i accepted it i felt so much better and everyone accepts me for my choice plus once you get used to it it can be alot of fun or you could just be going through a phase of expirementation

Answer 5

If you want to be gay, then be gay. If you don't, then do not because your body still has all the functions of the straight.

Answer 6

well is not right!! this is spiritual but 95% of the people would not understand!! God's is not against homosexuals, God is against sin and homosexuality is a sin!!

so if you're having this thoughts and inside of you, you're feeling is not right, well guess what? is because you were not made to like guys..

you came to the wrong place - everyone here is going to tell you that you're o.k , that you have to accept yourself !! I bet you will end up believing that is normal!! but NO God does not create you to be homosexual!! that's a choice!!

if you want to talk about more please contact me!!! [e-mail]

Answer 7

do u think about being with a female anymore? how do u feel on the inside?

Answer 8

I can tell you: YOU ARE GAY!

Answer 9

you are gay.

Answer 10

you are gay....and you should be who you are...you cant change that....