How wemon feel about other wemon who are strippers?

Question

Ok, I just want girls opinions on other girls being strippers. My opinion is, girls should not put down girls who choose to dance. I don't think girls who dance are insecure, I think girls who hate...are insecure. I only want opinions on girls who have went and watched other girls dance...because if you haven't been, then you have no right to talk!
Before I ever went and watched them. I honestly talked bad about them. Now that I've been it's more along the lines of entertainment then seduction! I don't think people should put down the dancer...because it's not her fault that inparticular men choose to come...it's the mans, and there are alot of wemon out there who dont mind for their men to go to strip clubs. I think the only way it should not be ok, is if a girl doesn't want her man to go...in that case a man needs to be understanding to his partner and either try to work it out or not care to agree. I want all wemon reading this to think about what I am about to say!

If you have a choice of making REALLY good money when all you had to do was just dance nude, or working a part-time minimum paying job....then COME ON be honest.
Alot of girls who trust themselves and feel secure with their bodies are not going to care to dance nude...it's people that hate on them that change their mind...and in my opinion people dont have the right to hate on girls who dance. There are alot of other good things about stripping besides "dancing ON guys" like... you get to ware cute clothes (which is your choice) you get to ware hills (which girls love) It's a GREAT work out! and you get to chose your own music...The girl chooses how personal she wants to be...not all strippers are ho's. I have been, and there are alot of nice, well-kept together girls who do this!
The people who are hating have no reason or right to unless THEY feel insecure with their men!

Also alot of girls who do this have a man themselves...so trust me it's not about dancing for other men it's about the money and the fun of getting to dance for a job, and all the other fun qualities I listed!!

Answer 1

All dancing is art.

I was a strip dancer myself , at the time I did it out of desperation, and didn't enjoy it, I was also fairly young.
However, doing that work boosted my confidence in other dance areas, and I found I could put my experience and some techniques I had learned while stipping into other forms of dancing - Which gave great results.
I think from a dancers point of view, it can be a good thing....

That said, I also think that strip dancing is bad for dancers, and other people too(esp young girls/women), sometimes. There's a lot of pressure on strip-dancers to look their best, and I think you'll find, when you're under that amount of pressure it can truly knock your confidence as a performer and person. Also, if you're an on looker, seeing girls under that pressure, it could make you question things about your body too and damage your thoughts on your own self image.

I guess I'm boderline on whether or not strip dancing is a good thing. Either way though, as I said at the very start, dancing is art - All kinds. And you are right - no one has right to put down anyone based on what they do for a living and/or hobby :)

Answer 2

First of all, to Cassandra, Stripping is not easy and no, not anyone can do it~It takes a lot of nerve to get on stage in front of a bunch of men and women (that you don't know) and get naked. I was a stripper for 6 years and paid my way through college(while still paying my bills) and bought a car that is now paid off, and put a down payment on a house. I worked at several different clubs and never once did the club(owners or other employees) try to force drugs on me! As a matter a fact, if anyone was caught with drugs(using or selling), you were automatically fired and asked to clean out your locker! I suggest if you haven't been there, don't believe everything you've heard from friends, family, and t.v. I would've never been able to afford to pay for college(not to mention the books) if it weren't for dancing in a strip club. Yes, some girls do it for the wrong reasons and get pulled in a different direction, but the majority of the ones I worked with took care of themselves and got their education and got out of the business! BTW we all had small children at the time and still managed to work and go to school!

Answer 3

i accept as true with what you assert, there is generally a false impression with peoples perspectives of erotic dancers, countless ppl think of them no brains to do something or that they've drug behavior or there substantial reason for doing it incredibly is money. those ppl could open their eyes to what is going on in in the present day's society, you could bypass in any club and seem on a dancefloor to work out scantily clad females/women human beings dancing far extra provocatively than you come across in a strip/lap bar. As for having no skills for something.............countless those females are clever and knowledgeable yet that's what they have chosen to do with their existence at that element.I dont comprehend why women human beings positioned those females down, they are working for a residing and helping themselves, they are not promptly hurting each and every person, and if there become no call for for this kind of entertainment then there could be no supply. of direction i'm generalising on the profession interior maximum human beings and there are exceptions and the seedier end to the employer, yet like what become written until eventually now "who're we to choose"

Answer 4

Personally I would never strip. I don't care how much money I would make I simply value myself. Selling a view of my body is not worth it to me. I'm in no way a prude, I'm not terribly self conscious or jealous. I'm a bellydancer so I'm quite comfortable with my body and sensual movements however, there is a big difference between dancing with clothes on and dancing with clothes off. If it really makes someone happy then I guess all the best to them but I wouldn't want my daughter, sister, or mother to do it so why would I make it acceptable to myself. By far my biggest issue with stripping is not the act of striping itself(although I don't particular care for it) but more the lifestyle and consequences the stripper may face. Many young girls get into it because of the money but most are unhappy with it while they are doing it. Clubs often push alcohol and drug abuse onto strippers to keep them coming back. If the owe a lot of money for drugs they have to keep coming back to work for the "big bucks" to afford their addictions and debts. Drugs and alcohol keep the strippers in an altered state while dancing so they do not feel as bad about doing what they are doing. In addition to this stripping often opens the door to other dangerous factors like rape and prostitution. If the stripper gets pushed a little further into prostitution she runs even more risks or sexually transmitted diseases which could be life threatening. I don't think very highly about strippers because there is always a better way to make money even if it's not a quick and easy fix like stripping. I know some people do it to put themselves through college but I still think there are better options. I feel strippers don't value themselves as much as they should. Also I have seen it and I don't think it's an art, anyone can do it and it doesn't take serious study and practice to do it well. As far as dressing cute and wearing heels being an advantage ... are you serious. Anyone can wear heels and cute clothes.

Edited for response to Sheila D.:
Yes, the nerve to do it in front of people is not something everyone can do and that's part of my point... if there's nothing wrong with it why does it take SO much nerve? I was referring to the physical part of stripping which YES anyone can do it, I've witnessed 8 year old girls doing the same moves as well as 80 year old physically fit women. You don't have to progress though many training programs to stip Also, I DO know stippers. I'm not judging you personaally but, I still think you could have gone about paying for school in another way. I'm paying my own way through school right now. I'm by no means rich but I make due. I still don't feel I have to strip to put myself through college and I have 2 kids! And I'm not saying all strippers get pulled into substance abuse and prostitution but, a lot of them do. I don't say that because of what I've read and seen on TV, I say that because I know strippers who have gotten pushed into that (3 out of 4 that I know). If your club was advocating drug free work place I think that's great but, there are plenty out there who do not. I seem to have really stuck a nerve for you to take it so personally... is there something you feeling a little dissonance about? The question asked how I felt so I said how I felt. Instead of trying to pick apart my answer why don't you just explain why you stripped and how it was a great experience for you. It would be more convincing then the old "your wrong, I'm right, don't judge me, you don't understand" attitude that is annoying enough on a teenager but childish for an adult. We are all entitled to our own opinions.

Answer 5

i think stripping is an art that is very sexy and i wish i could master it. haha im sure my boyfriend does too, but on the other hand, i think its sad that there is women out there that strip as their main income of money. girls shouldnt have to strip in order to live, they should get a good education and good job and if they still want to strip, then hey thats their decision.

Answer 6

It's their life, they can do whatever they want with it. I just hope they are not under-age. It isn't exactly a safe job.

The only thing I totally disagree with you on - you say "it's not their fault because men chose to come". It is their decision to become a stripper, not those random men's.

Answer 7

You seem like a wise person and you turn me on greatly.

Answer 8

I pity women who don't have the education or experience to excel in life and end up having to take off their clothes for money.
(PS it's spelled women. You see why education is important?)

Answer 9

hehe strippers :D